Trying to "arouse" my boyfriend?
My boyfriend comes over to my house a lot.. and I always find myself trying to make him get a boner without actually making it look like I'm trying. I have no intentions of having sex with him for now, but I wonder if it's normal that I try to do this? Is it cruel?
Also!
When he does things like grab my butt I tell him no, even though I don't mind at all. I just don't want him to see me as a sl*t or anything like that. Should I just let him?
But it does seem like there's a bit of a double standard going on here. That is, it's OK for you to give him a boner, but not OK for him to grab your butt. If you're doing provocative things to arouse him, how does this differ from an ass grab? Just something you may want to consider.
but i must argee with JanIAm, you have a double standered no dought about that. but if you like him grabbing your ass just let him (you will probable find that if you let him he will stop because you let him), it is most likely his way if teasing you