fast enough

Hey dont feel bad!! he is very inconsiderate if wants u to go that damn fast! If u go fast it feels better for him but does nothing for u!! Plus the faster you go the faster hes going to cum and not satisfy you. seems like he doesnt really care about u if he is pushing u to do this all the time. what does he say to u when u start crying??? Thats bullshit! U should dump him! on top is the best position for a female. if u lay on top of him insted of ride him like a damn horse all the time if feels so damn good trust me! (and do it slow) it hits the g spot and the clit at the same time! its awesome. when me and my boyfriend have sex we switch it up we go really fast for a while and that gets him going. and then we go really slow so we can start working on me and give him some time to cool off so we dont have an accident lol. you are not a bad lover because of this and if he tells u that u are then hes a selfish asshole! any guy that makes u cry is not worth it! You guys need to compromise do it how I do it. And if he goes with it good shit. If he dosent than screw him!! Take my word for it

well, he doesn't say anything, he'll just grab(gently mind you) my hips and try to rock them faster, or my head and gently move it faster, I'll push his hands away because I am not capable of going faster than what I am already doing and he'll start trying to thrust faster. It makes me feel like shit and I'll cry about it(I am very sensitive about these things.)

If he wants faster, tell him to go wank it . . .

Its totally normal for a guy to want to be fucked fast. but you should let him know about yer problems etc.

a long slow yet powerful blow job is better. no one can move their head fast so use yer hand as well

i was more bothered about the bed making a racket

Relationships are a two piece puzzle, you can't have a whole without them both. He needs to respect your feelings, if you can't go faster then he shouldn't care, you're doing the best you can that's all that's important.

what she or he said...that person is totally right, im a guy too but when im doing it i dont do that my girl, i hold it as long as i can for her, shes more important thatn me, thats what i think. so listen to her somment or his.

maybe your just a little overly sensative.

it seems like u have some performance anxiety...maybe u should talk to your man and see if he could possibly stop telling u to do that, but if u not u could dump him and give me a call at 202-370-???? (ask me for the rest)

I want you to take what I'm going to tell you seriously, so about me. I'm a man, and I'm not one of those showoff nice guys who always takes the woman's side.

Your reaction is natural. The situation you are being put in is an uncomfortable one and your boyfriend really needs to ease up on you and be a lot nicer. Also, I don't think he knows what being on bottom or recieving a blowjob are all about. When you are on top or in control you need to set the pace, he can't drive from underneath. You can try to take direction, but he really cant criticize you for what you cant do. And, as I said, he needs to learn to experience your rythm, and enjoy your pace or else get back on top and do it his way.

Its not all about speed he sould enjoy it cus its you not cus hes getting friction burn oral slow is realy nice and such evil teazingness (thats a word honest) so its not your fault you havent done anything wrong