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in love w/ married best friend
Ok, I'm sure this is a very common thing, but not for me...I have been best friends with this guy for a year...we've known eachother for 5 yrs...he got married (arranged) 2 years ago. He has a 1 year old daughter who plays with my son when he comes over to visit...btw, I'm a single mom...anyway, I've always treasured our friendship because he's able to listen, he's honest, caring, and funny,...all the things best friends possess...except, now he and I became intimate...only twice and not for more than a few minutes(lol).
My question is, what the hell was he thinking( I guess me too)to take our friendship to another level? I know I'm in love with him, but I don't want to lose our friendship that I treasure so much...HELP! thx

single in LA
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NegroLogic (9643)
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Knuckifyoubuck (9689)
2007-11-11 09:18:08
@: NegroLogic
SHUT UP
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sunshine11 (11664)
2007-11-11 09:47:47
@: NegroLogic
Look, you're angry...I see this all over this website...why not come over to my house and we can talk it over...NOT!!!!
If you spend all your time KNUCKING everyone then how do you find time to be (F)ucking everyone???
LUV u Anyway
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bubux007 (11659)
2007-11-11 10:00:09
There is no problem with your friendship. I think he thought that if you are a single mom without regular sex his "best-friend-task" to help you in this respect. Of course he find you an attractive woman, without this sex does not work. At least men like to f*ck sometimes their female best friends. (I am the same, anyway.) At least for a while do not express your love to him, because he can be scared of this. What he did, quickies with you, is much more friendly, mate-like step than love-step. If he feels something love to you he will tell you. So you should receive his sexual overture like a Tomboy, or a good mate, who makes some nasty fun together. But I think next time you may say that if he f*cks you, you prefer it longer than few minutes. Well, quickies are also good fun, but if you can cum, that is much better. You may tell him this. He will like it. I think he is happy now about that you tow have something secret together. This also belongs to the mate-relationship.
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sunshine11 (11664)
2007-11-11 10:13:30
@: bubux007
thx 4 your reply...u made it all make sense...
Are u Dr. Phil related???
many thx!!!!
tc
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JanIAm (10668)
2007-11-11 10:42:18
@: sunshine11
I'd be more inclined to support bubux's comments if it weren't for the fact that both of you have young children. If you continue a "friendly fuck" type relationship and one or both of the kids finds out, it could be a very difficult thing to explain to them. I also wonder how his wife would react if she found out.

Since you say you're in love with him, I doubt that you can return to the "best friends" status you had before, at least not right away. I'd suggest taking a time out from your relationship (a month or more) to give you the time and distance you'll need to sort this through rationally. During that time, try to involve yourself with other people, places, and things -- but in particular, concentrate on the love and nurturing your son needs. In my opinion, once children become a part of our lives, adult "recreational interests" have to take a back seat to the needs of our young ones.
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sunshine11 (11664)
2007-11-11 13:29:50
@: JanIAm
you are so right Janiam,
absolutely, no turning back now. As a matter of fact, I was just thinking of taking time off as you just said. Good thing tht 1 and 3 yr olds don't "know" or "see", thx, that's always undercover. But time off sounds like good advice...but I don't think returning to best friend status is an option now.
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GrinGo (9757)
2007-11-11 15:07:08
Obviously he's a playa'
And you're one of many
But if he cums in a few minutes you're doing something right, stick at it.
Don't let your kids walk in on you.
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