in love w/ married best friend http://isitnormal.com/story/18686/ Obviously he's a playa' And you're one of many But if he cums in a few minutes you're doing something right, stick at it. Don't let your kids walk in on you. http://isitnormal.com/story/18686/#comment-192914 2007-11-11 15:07:08 you are so right Janiam, absolutely, no turning back now. As a matter of fact, I was just thinking of taking time off as you just said. Good thing tht 1 and 3 yr olds don't "know" or "see", thx, that's always undercover. But time off sounds like good advice...but I don't think returning to best friend status is an option now. http://isitnormal.com/story/18686/#comment-192846 2007-11-11 13:29:50 I'd be more inclined to support bubux's comments if it weren't for the fact that both of you have young children. If you continue a "friendly fuck" type relationship and one or both of the kids finds out, it could be a very difficult thing to explain to them. I also wonder how his wife would react if she found out. Since you say you're in love with him, I doubt that you can return to the "best friends" status you had before, at least not right away. I'd suggest taking a time out from your relationship (a month or more) to give you the time and distance you'll need to sort this through rationally. During that time, try to involve yourself with other people, places, and things -- but in particular, concentrate on the love and nurturing your son needs. In my opinion, once children become a part of our lives, adult "recreational interests" have to take a back seat to the needs of our young ones. http://isitnormal.com/story/18686/#comment-192741 2007-11-11 10:42:18 thx 4 your reply...u made it all make sense... Are u Dr. Phil related''' many thx!!!! tc http://isitnormal.com/story/18686/#comment-192721 2007-11-11 10:13:30 There is no problem with your friendship. I think he thought that if you are a single mom without regular sex his "best-friend-task" to help you in this respect. Of course he find you an attractive woman, without this sex does not work. At least men like to f*ck sometimes their female best friends. (I am the same, anyway.) At least for a while do not express your love to him, because he can be scared of this. What he did, quickies with you, is much more friendly, mate-like step than love-step. If he feels something love to you he will tell you. So you should receive his sexual overture like a Tomboy, or a good mate, who makes some nasty fun together. But I think next time you may say that if he f*cks you, you prefer it longer than few minutes. Well, quickies are also good fun, but if you can cum, that is much better. You may tell him this. He will like it. I think he is happy now about that you tow have something secret together. This also belongs to the mate-relationship. http://isitnormal.com/story/18686/#comment-192713 2007-11-11 10:00:09 Look, you're angry...I see this all over this website...why not come over to my house and we can talk it over...NOT!!!! If you spend all your time KNUCKING everyone then how do you find time to be (F)ucking everyone''' LUV u Anyway http://isitnormal.com/story/18686/#comment-192711 2007-11-11 09:47:47