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IM GOING CRAZY! my bf and his friend call too much
ok.. me and my boyfriend have been dating for two years, yes we are a gay couple. so ever since i started dating him his male friend (who is also gay) call each other a lot... i mean since the begining of our relationship.. they were friends before i met him... he and his friend call each other about 3 or 4 times everyday! seriously i see the phone records and sometimes they call each other at odd hours like 1 am.. i mean me and my bf call each other like 10-12 times a day to.... but do friends call each other just to check up on them.. like he calls him just to ask how his day is going... is this just a gay tendency to talk on the phone a lot or should i be worried.. ive asked him why he calls him so much and he admits he calls him a lot and he tells me not to intererfere with his friends... please help me its DRIVING ME NUTS!!!
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It seems to me what we have here is a 23 year old who is desperate to stay young. Are you confident that they are only "friends"? I took my time coming back to you because it seems to me your "b/f" is playing you for a mug and even when he is with you he is thinking of his "friend". You cannot give him an ultimatum because you'll come out of that wishing you hadn't. I would say have a VERY SERIOUS chat with your b/f and let him know how you are thinking and feeling. At 18 you have the world at your feet and if he isn't open to accepting your feelings, then you have to ask yourself if he is the right one for you or not. It will hurt breaking up if it comes to that. Thats life I am afraid be you bay, bi or hetro. At 18 I would say go out there and find some one more loyal and who respects your feelings. I would also say, if you tend to be on the jellous side, temper that somewhat. It is a killer of relationships.
I have some knowlege of this subject. I am one of the few on this site that has being and old timer gay guy myself.
Above all else, whatever you do, please remember, there are a great many STD's out there and they are absolutely RAMPANT in your age group. If you are not 100% certain that yours is a monogamous relationship, then make sure it is wrapped up before it is posted!
BE SAFER.