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The Biggest Surpised of my life ?
Well Guys hey im new here Firstly , Heya ! :DWell im a guy im 14 and well i just wanted to see your guys opinion on this
Well It was During the Summer Holidays And One Day Me and my friend (dan) were invited to a sleepover about 20 of us were there , now my mate dan he is small for our age anyway and iv always felt this kinda erm Responsibility for him
When we were there it go on the subject of dan being well gay , someone just randomly asked . when the person asked dan blushed and just came over to me and ignored the others
the others ,seeing him doing this started saying i was gay , i havnt got a prob with gays but im just not one myself not saying iv never thought about gays i think most kids at my age had
well it got round to about 1am when i felt someone getting in under my blanket with me i immediately shot up wndering who it was , and i was greeted by dan looking at me crying
seeing this , made me feel realy bad i just hugged him and laid him down next to me (not even asking what was wrong) and pulled the blanket back over us...i could feel him put his hand under my shirt , i didnt bother telling him to piss off as i just figured it was a comfort thing
Morning came well i tjought it was morning but realy it was about 4am i opened my eyes and saw dan leaning nearer to my face and he kissed me on the lips , i ssaid " what the hell you doing?" he ran to the bathroom i followed i knocked on the door, not knowing what to saw i just say " dan its fine dont worry" he opened the door and he was crying so muh i didnt know someone could cry so much
we spoke for a bit , he told me he had feelings for me for quite some time i helped him get cleaned up and we went back into the room where we and the others were sleeping , i let him sleep with me i couldnt stand seeing him cry again 2nite
Morning came , i woke up looked around dan was still sleeping i went outside and went into the jacuzi and sauna , got out and one of my mates were there , rhys ... he was stairing at the bottom half of my body , me thinking someone had came out to say hello covered myself and yet he came staring i looked down to see "DANS PROPERTY" Written in thick black marker on my Boxer wasteband i just started laughed histericaly ,
well what im askin is what shall i do ? i dont mind him being all cuddly with me but its awkward when i meet new people and he just comes up and cuddles me and dosnt let go hehe
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First of all, I commend you for being kind and compassionate to your friend even when he behaved in a manner that might have threatened some young men. I found your protectiveness to be very endearing.
However, he seems to have become dependent on you in a way that may not be healthy for either of you. At 14, he needs to develop some assertiveness so he won't have to hide behind you all the time. It's hard to say what the kissing and other physical contact is really about at this stage, other than that it's clear that he looks upon you as his defender. Because of this, he may be confusing his adulation of you as a physical attraction.
If you're close enough to lie down next to him and hug him, then you should be close enough to talk to him about you feel about the situation. As his friend, you owe him your honesty. It's the only way to save yourself from future embarrassing situations around others AND to help him to grow a spine.
The whole crying thing and running to the bathroom sounds extreme, but yes you sound very compassionate and loving and Dan certainly has feelings for you.
Jeez...where the fuck were you when I WAS fourteen??!!
I can't tell you how I wish I had had a friend like you when I was that age. You come off as being so understanding that I wonder if this post is truthful. In my experience it is very rare to find a hetero that reacts as you do to the advances of a gay man.
I also agree with Jan....the kid sounds spineless. Mincing. Now there's nothing wrong with a man crying, I certainly vry as anyone does when my feelings are seriously hurt but the running to the bathroom thing and doing this to you in that particular situation (in the presence of other friends) annoys me.
maybe hes Bi? try getting him to like women, maybe?
if not tell him that your just friends and that theres no way you guys can be lovers. and that your straight.