I am a female and I love to masturbate, but I don't ever do any kind of penetration (like dildos or even my fingers). It just doesn't do anything for me. My boyfriend thinks this is weird. Is it normal?
Actually Fred, you are 200% wrong. It is the one single thing that the majority of human beings have in common. They Masturbate.
It therefore stands to reason that the correct answer to this question is yes, it is normal, no matter what variation you use.
I'm all for masturbation. Almost no risk of disease, no worries about whether or not the other person climaxes, no mess, and no trauma over whether you were "good enough." More people should do it, particularly those who have no business reproducing.
That doesn't make me wrong. I don't know if most people do it or not, but regardless of whether or not most people do it, it isn't right. It isn't right; it isn't wrong. It's simply disgusting, unnecessary, and like sex, highly addictive.
I have something here that willmake you feel your insides. He must be a pencil dick if you can't feel him. What you need is to run a THICK 10 incher up there I promise you will feel every bit of it!
I can see this whole thing about the external being the focus, especially if you don't know about any other types of orgasms...but I do know there is something to this g spot thing from personal experience. I agree with apathy on this one...try to find it...you might like it! P.S. What does it matter what your boyfriend thinks? He might learn a thing or two if he's worried about it and teach you!
Fred, I respect your oppinion, I think you know that. But oppinions are like mouths, we all have one. The 200% thing is a saying. There is no such thing. As for it being disgusting and un necesary, you may be able to survive without it but most cannot. Would you rather people masturbated or let it build up to such a defree that they go find some one and rape them? Personally, I'd rather see them all masturbating. It is as natural as drinking and eating.
@: flikr An old wives tale lmao, go blind indeed. Just eat a carrot afterwards.
You don't see rabits wearing glasses do you. raflmao
No, I would rather see people get help for their addictions. Sex and masturbation addictions can be cured, but they are so accepted by society that people don't understand the severity of the problem. I pasted this in another post that I made recently, but I think it's relevant here too, because it basically sums up the 'natural' argument to sex while using your example of food. It is taken from the Antisexual Stronghold's FAQ.
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Q. But sex is natural like, for example, food. You don't demand that people stop eating, do you?
A. First of all, natural doesn't mean good. Diseases and death are also natural. A "Natural" lifestyle is for monkeys and other animals; civilization itself is quite unnatural. And on the other hand, sex is very different from other physical needs: it is not required for the survival of an individual (only for the entire species), and, in the case of Homo Sapiens, it dramatically, at least 100 times, exceeds biologically reasonable level. Animals have short mating periods during which they become "insane" (there are common terms like "march hare"); humans experience this insanity during most of their lifespan! The higher is a species' grade of development, the less is mortality among adults and especially children; therefore, the less if the need for procreation, for sex. For a sentient being just a few matings in the entire life are sufficient. Humans do not follow this principle. This is unnatural, it is a disease of the entire species.
Mating without the aim of procreation is as stupid and awful as eating and immediately vomiting out the food; it is possible in case of a severe illness but cannot by considered normal by any means.
any woman who spends her times dildoing her vagina trying to find some porno movie inspired secret pleasure zone in there will be forever frustrated.
It therefore stands to reason that the correct answer to this question is yes, it is normal, no matter what variation you use.
@: flikr An old wives tale lmao, go blind indeed. Just eat a carrot afterwards.
You don't see rabits wearing glasses do you. raflmao
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Q. But sex is natural like, for example, food. You don't demand that people stop eating, do you?
A. First of all, natural doesn't mean good. Diseases and death are also natural. A "Natural" lifestyle is for monkeys and other animals; civilization itself is quite unnatural. And on the other hand, sex is very different from other physical needs: it is not required for the survival of an individual (only for the entire species), and, in the case of Homo Sapiens, it dramatically, at least 100 times, exceeds biologically reasonable level. Animals have short mating periods during which they become "insane" (there are common terms like "march hare"); humans experience this insanity during most of their lifespan! The higher is a species' grade of development, the less is mortality among adults and especially children; therefore, the less if the need for procreation, for sex. For a sentient being just a few matings in the entire life are sufficient. Humans do not follow this principle. This is unnatural, it is a disease of the entire species.
Mating without the aim of procreation is as stupid and awful as eating and immediately vomiting out the food; it is possible in case of a severe illness but cannot by considered normal by any means.