19 and still single

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LMAO. WOA whatever! I'm 23 and still single!!! Don't worry, You've still got some livin' to do there, kid.

dude get out there and start livin ur life seriously hang out wit ur friends nd stuff and maybe den a girl will think ur cute and then flirt wit u and den u just gota ask her out and bam ur not single anymore

Is it really that simple? I guess I really do need to get out more.

I'm 19 and still single. I've never met a woman who was worth the effort.

Most people that are single are just too self concious, people that do have partners are more outgoing...or lucky.

Dear 19-year-old, you have a long life ahead of you. It could be that you are feeling pressured by your peers? I was considered a "late bloomer" for a young woman, and I am certain my era in maturing is all together different from today's teens. However, as healthy, normal humans we are one and the same, having the urge to have a mate, to love, and have companionship.

I have always found that when I am not looking for something, the most wonderful interesting things happen in your life. I believe in fate, and/or things happen for a reason, meaning, that the timing may not be right for you, for whatever reason, not necessarily any negative reason, it's just that something is telling you, the one has not appeared.

I am in my 40's, and have recently separated, and even my mother in her 60's was going through a divorce after 35 years of marriage. You'll discover through your relationships in life that every person brings with them something special, that you'll be able to hold onto, and perhaps at somepoint, you'll cross paths with one who captures your heart like no other.

Don't rush things, you have a long life ahead of you. Work on your "friendships", with others, girls, guys, etc., as these are the friends you will know and nurture for many years. Isn't it wonderful when you hear an elderly person, I still talk to my childhood sweetheart, or we have been friends for 50 years? Have a great life, you're not abnormal at all, just a bit young and perhaps feeling a bit pressured by others, society's customs, etc.

I'm a 30 year-old male virgin and I've never had a girlfriend before. There's absolutely nothing wrong with you, you're still young and you still have a long way to go. Look, whenever you feel bad about yourself, just think of me OK, and you'll be fine.

Hi mate, don't rush it, there is no need for it. Wait as many years as you need, take your time. You will DEFINETLY find the right girl in the right moment.

I know how you feel, and yes it sucks. But experience has told me that it just ok to be that way. There is nothing wrong in being single at your age.

¡Cheer up!

I am almost 19 and have never been in one. :)

Sure, that's it.

It's not normal to have never dated someone at your age, but it's not completely unheard of. If you WANT a relationship I assure you it's easier then you think. Go to a place of interest you have and just try talking to people. It's not as scary as it seems.

YES! Wow, I was actually going to make a post here but you've done it for me :).

My sister has never had a boyfriend and she is 21 and the same with me
you have absolutely nothing to worry about, you've still got the rest of uni if your there, even if you not at uni your young which makes it so much easier to find people.
If students go to certain universities e.g. Oxbridge, LSE, Durham, UCL, etc then there less likely to find people, because they work so much. There's probably a fair amount of people there who have never had a relationships.

I'm 19 and I've been on one relationship that lasted 11 days so... I'm not counting it. And you know, I know a few of my mates who haven't been in a relationship either, one of them is like the hottest chick I've ever met and she just didn't think any guy was up to her standard. I can't say the same thing, really, but... if you hold out you won't regret it.

i hate relationships!, there is no reason to attach to somebody just because you need a boyfriend.

i have had very few ''relationships'' with men i really really liked.

and a lot of casual sex! hahaha

Seconding violent10dency!

I'm 19 and the closest I've ever gotten in a relationship was I asked this girl out in highschool and she said no. Never asked again.

serious question? if so i do not think it is normal because i have had a girlfriend since i was in grade 6, i remember because she was in my class and we clicked. i had to move and i lost touch but a long distance relationship wouldnt have worked out either.

i think this is completely normal. so you havent found your special someone yet. it's really understandable. i've been in a real relationship either. dont worry, you'll find that someone.:)

oops, i mean i havent been in one either. blah, i hate it when i typo