When I first accidentally came across this site, I thought it was a good site for people to be open about their problems and to get helpful feedback.
Then I realised that there are a few people who always seem to be in here.
Then I realised that these 'regulars' argue a lot with eachother.
Then I realised that a lot of the regulars post fake stories for a laugh and that they also try to post the funniest replies!
This site is great!
Some genuine problems from innocent people do get some helpful advice but....
I have finally realised what's going on here!
Because while there are some good people that mean well, there are some real stupid ignorant arrogant people on here.
Will I stay on here? maybe a day or two. Then I will probably say screw it for a while again.
Some of that crap that goes on isn't even close to being funny. There are a couple, like Stargirl, that mean to be helpful. Others try to condemn her
And I'm actually happy for what the site has for me because I had made many posts i nwhich i needed good advice. And to my surprise, like 75% of the posts were helpful and I used the advice and it has helped me out a bit.
So before you go bashing it/hating it folks, Isitnormal aint all that bad. I think the key to it all is that you have to be sincere when you're posting: use correct language, punctuation and do not sound like you're faking it!
Thank God I am not alone!
N ymphomaniac
N umchuks
who cares if this place is over run by children that just meens i can talk dirty to them all in the chat rooms they love it,i got a 12 year old to finger her self the other day,then she took a photo of her self doing it then sent it to me in an a e-mail,OMG she's hot.
You only have to go to one of those dead moderated websites to see how fun this place actually is.new posts always coming in and if mods were here and got rid of what they deemed inappropriate stuff youd maybe not have any new stuff for days or weeks.
all you people calling for moderators just might regret it if it actually happens.
I have tried the email ans the feedback links. Both were returned to me as "undeliverable"
Sure the hate stuff is stupid but if everyone skipped over it and gave no responses it would soon die out.
attention is what the posters of such crap are wanting and when we validate them by responding they get reinforcement to post even more.
Believe me Nazi Mods arent what we need here.
(I was banned from The Reef for referring to mods there as Nazis ,but yet they boasted of free speech there also)
But I think Slack has the best take on the situation. Free speech is an important byproduct of a free society. I don't like about 75 percent of what I see here, but I'm free to ignore those posts and I'm also free to take up membership at another forum. Banning people here is a complete joke because they just come back under new aliases (or aliASSES). We must suffer fools if we are to encourage a free exchange of ideas.