My wife for four years is a very hard working lady. She is not into sex but once or twice a month.So when she is in a deep sleep I have sex with her. But the next day she gets horny? Is this normal?
I do believe that having sex with someone while they are asleep is rape, whether she is your wife or not, even if she isn't putting out. If she cannot conciously consent than it is rape, think about that. No, it's not right.