ok so i borrowed my moms car today (i don't have a license yet) because i needed to get to school and my friend was sick and normally she drives me i didn't want to take the bus so i took her car when i got home from school today she was waiting for me and started yelling at me she said she was sick of me doing this stuff and that this was the last straw she said grounding didn't seem work so she was going to do something she hadnt done in years and i couldnt figure it out at first then she told me to follow her so i did and she sat on a chair and grabbed my arm pulled me over the lap and spanked me! she spanked me! i am sixteen years old and she spanked me! and she smacked hard over and over again and when i was younger when i was like 7 when she did it last it was three slaps but i don't even know how many times she slapped me
and you know what she said? she said next time i pulled that kind of stunt it would be bare bottom spanking!
isn't that like child abuse? i can't believe it and i am thinking of going to my teachers about to tomorrow because i am way too old to be spanked! i think i am going to tell them she hits me all the time though because i hate her guts and wish she would die because that was so humilating being spanked!
i can't believe what a b**ch she is! and she said tomorrow we would discuss more about my punishment when my dad gets home from his trip and she already spanked me so why does she have to do more? i hate her guts for this
you , How would she like if she knew
what you said about her ? No, she wouldn't cause she was only doing what is
wrong , I would put you away in a detention center until you were 21
Don't think Childrens service didn't here
your comment ,SO LAY OFF OF MOM!!!!
I wished everyday , I had my mom , my
mother died from terminal cancer!!!
the police , And had them lock you away
in juvenile detention center instead of
whipping your A$$, And keep you in there until your 21 years old , Theres
girls like you end up in group homes
homeless , on drugs , And more
BE HAPPY YOU HAVE A MOM , AND STRAIGHTEN
YOUR A$$ NOW!!!!!!!!
Go tell her you are sorry And tell her
you LOVE her , Do you realize that it
is h*ll not to have a mother ?
I wish my mom was here everyday , I can not bring her back , My grandma was like
a mother to me too , I can not bring her back , Please , for the sake of the
good LORD , start appreciating what you got !!
At the VERY least, you could have contacted your mother from school to let her know what you had done, yet you failed to even make that one small effort to ease the situation somewhat. The overall impression I get here is that you don't follow the rules at home in general because you feel you have grown beyond them, and your parents should just get off your case.
Well, I have news for you. As a minor living under their roof, your parents are responsible for your welfare. And YOU are responsible for following the rules of the house. Unless your parents are clearly violating the law in some way in their parenting, then it is your luck, good or bad, to deal with the situation until you are old enough to move out on your own.
I think that if you try reporting your mother's behavior as "child abuse", you will be very much disappointed. In California, the CPS will only monitor a family situation or remove a child from a home if there is very clear evidence of abuse. They are quite accustomed to getting complaints such as yours and unless your mother left physical injuries or there are others who can corroborate prior abuses, your claims will do nothing but embarrass you and your family.
I hope you'll try to look at this situation from both points of view and also try to come to a peaceful settlement with your mom. And NEVER again consider "borrowing" the car like this, for your own sake and for the sake of the rest of your family.