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boyfriend says i cant keep up

me and my boyfriend have sex ALL the time. every time i see him that's all we do, and i'm not exagerating- it averages about 6-7 consecutive hours a day.. i'm not saying i don't enjoy it but my concern is that he wants more than my body can physically withstand- i'm usually sore, swollen, have rashes all over, am tired and my immune system is weakened overall. this also leads to yeast infections and he seems to get upset that i have all of these things affect me like this, as it doesn't happen to him. he also says its not his fault i can't keep up with him. This crushes me because i want to be capable of satisfying him but i can't physically keep up with his stamina. he does always try to please me and make me comfortable at all costs and caters to what i want to do as well and waits on me hand and foot sometimes (he's not always a jerk like ive made him sound so far), but regardless, the situation just kinda bothers me a little. is this amount of sex normal for people to have every day?
Do you think it's normal?
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silence (442)
2006-01-26 03:12:23
Comparing this to my experience and that of others, I'd have to say no, not normal by all means. Why don't you just tell him that if he loves you, you guys need to calm down on the sex a little. If he is making you sore and getting mad about you getting yeast infection(ALL FEMALES GET THOSE) then he needs to get over it and understand that a females vagina can only take so much before it starts to hurt.

Tell him to go use his hand or something....
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pie1985 (720)
2006-01-26 05:53:17
No
It isn't normal and its a kinda of pointless having a relationship of constant sex, though it sounds a good thing.

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Anonymous
2006-01-26 17:27:36
from a guy
As a guy, it disturbs me to hear that he is that much into it. In a relationship, you need to give and take and he sounds as if he is only taking as far as this part of the relationship is concerned. The both of you should sit down and seriously talk about this. It is very unfair to YOU for him to be taking and taking and taking as far as this goes and not caring about you and your health and what effects these long-winded sessions can have. For me personally, being married, once or twice a week is sufficient; could never even imagine going for hours and hours on end every day; that is waaaay overkill!
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Jeni (1113)
2006-01-29 03:54:21
That is way way too much sex yea id be hurting too. umm your b/f is a freak and u need to tell him back off and if he gets pissed then dump him hes not worth it.
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WORD-UP (1310)
2006-02-03 11:14:41
gurl, fuck that shit. that is your body. Fuck when you want to fuck. if he can't hear that shit put his ass on pussy probation. you know what that is right? you come see his ass when you want some. if he try to fuck somebody else let him go ahead. trust, he'll be back. relationships are not based upon pleasing your man by harming your body. the pussy is the most prize possesion. feel me. control that shit. and thats fucked up he told you some shit like that after you told him how you were feeling. Dawg ass.
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nobody1000 (1229)
2006-02-03 12:50:14
@: WORD-UP
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It's your body, your decision, and your health. Make the decision you think is right. If he loves you, he'll respect your decision either way, if he doesn't... Get rid of him.
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Anonymous
2006-02-03 18:26:51
No,definately NOT normal!It sounds like this guys a fucking pervert and you should probably stay
away from him.He's commiting a sin by fucking you so much,then blaming it on you for "not keeping up".
I'm not blaming it entirely on him though,it's your fault for being such a slut and letting him fuck you a quarter of the day.Trust me,if you continue on fucking your boyfriend then you will surely turn into a disease-spreading whore!!
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Anonymous
2006-05-20 14:13:25

He sounds like he only loves the sex, not you. Sex is infinately better when done with a boy u love.
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Anonymous
2006-05-30 04:50:04
@: WORD-UP
this guy is right
i agree, you need your space. tell him to be nicer 6-7 hours a week is okay but a day
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Anonymous
2006-07-02 21:39:06
sound like a cheap hooker with aids bitch
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weirdotoo (2626)
2006-07-06 03:41:04
you poor thing
he needs to get some education about female sex... give him a book with a lot of pics in it, that will increase the chance that he might actually read or look at it, lol.
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Ironsufficient (943)
2006-07-06 05:45:34
So here it is, women bitch about men wanting sex all the time when they are young. When the men finally get tired of the bitching and give up on sex and find other things to do with their time, the women get pissed off becuse the man does not "find them attractive anymore". It's a no win situation.
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donkeyspuzz (3277)
2006-09-01 04:53:06
Marry him. Then you don't have to have sex ever again. Apparently.
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