call them. take it in to your own hands. a girl will NEVER call or email a man first. its like an unwritten rule. we dont want to look desperate! but if you make the first move im sure the lady will return the email/call.

(from a guy): Why should the woman need to make the first move? If you exchanged contact information then you can call them too, right? In fact, think of it from the woman's perspective... "why didn't that nice guy ever call me? what's wrong with me?"

I guess I didn't make it clear, I actually DO call/email them, but after that, they never respond... It seems weird, you give out your number and then change your mind?

Lots of chicks give out their number when they actually arent interested. I guess its easier then rejecting a guy. 1st, wait a few days (at least) to call. Dont seem desperate. Find something totally awesome to do, and when you do call, call only to invite her with you, leave a message, and your number again. Tell them to let you know. If they do answer, dont chat too much even if they want to. Cut the conversation short (in a polite way). Being busy and mysterious will catch her interest. If she doesnt want to go, wait another week or two and repeat. Remember to find something totally different from the first time. Still no response, repeat one more time. If she doesnt respond a 3rd time, she's not into you and thats when you leave a message telling her you thought she was cool and kind of good looking, but now you realize shes just a bitch.

I think you sound like a sweety. All those girls out there these days are young and stupid and only after one thing. Being 31 myself I know exactly what I want. I think alot of girls are dont know what there missing with you so stuff them and wait for miss right.

Here is the plan...if you live in a metropolitan area (in a sub-urb),
this is what you you do: If you live in a sub-urb, put an ad in your most local home town paper (THE PERSONAL SECTION)! Be very specific about the type of woman
you are looking for! If you want a blond, say YOU WANT A BLOND! If want a Catholic Pole, just ask! If you want a dark hair Jew with a rich ABBA just ASK! ASK AND YOU WILL RECEIVE! I did this 14 years ago and I am still married!
GOOD LUCK! (JUST AS A WARNING! FIRST COMES THE DATING! THEN THE WEDDING RING! THEN THE SUFFERING! You will be alright! Just be carefull! See ya buddy!

i know mate, i live in a city too. at least we have loads of hookers!

The answer is actually very simple. But, unfortunately for most of us guys, it's not OBVIOUS. The long and the short of it is that WOMEN AREN'T ATTRACTED TO GUYS THAT STOP ACTING ATTRACTIVE. Duh.

ATTRACTION ISN'T A CHOICE, IT'S A RESPONSE.
In other words, women don't choose who they're attracted to. They respond to behaviors, communication, confidence, and other triggers.
A woman doesn't want a guy who acts like one of her girlfriends! She doesn't need another friend!

So what do most guys do when they meet attractive women? Of course. They act like a girlfriend! They ask how her day was and what she wants to do tonight, listen to her problems, offer to help, and kiss her ass until she finally says: "Will you act like a man already?"

Here's what to do:

1. Stop acting like a WUSSY immediately.
2. Put some space between you and her. Call her once for every three times she calls you.
3. Take some time to reflect on any areas that you've made the mistake of acting like a Girly-Man, and stop it!


A woman will accept ass-kissing from a guy that she likes... but only up to a point. Once you cross the ass-kiss of no return, it's all over. And you won't even see it coming.

If a woman senses up front that you are a push over or a guy that is just like all the others that just want to give her what she wants, you'll lose before you even begin. So don't do it.

Read this for some solid guidelines:
http://www.fastseduction.com/asf-faq.shtml

Don't let the website name put you off. There's some solid advice for all men, even if you don't wanna be a "pick-up artist".

to be honest with u im 20 and have the same problem, i guess i could be u in a few years! well i dont mind the money but i still want some possie time to time! i guess its jst fate! approach 10 women a week u'll get one for now! :p the right one is always there my friend, u jst gota find her, and let fate play its part.

Well I do not mean to offened, but just by reading this I sensed you were self absorbed. I am probably wrong.