am i strange?

At 14 you dont even no what its all about. I didnt even no at 14. The feelings your having are normal. Its called 14 year old hormones. You wouldnt even no what real love is. Dont say you may be gay until you are at least 25. Go with it. Stop stressing and enjoy being a teen it doesnt last long.

You are 14 for christs sake. You won't know your sexual preference until you are at least 18. You have four more years to figure all the stuff out, so don't say you are gay yet. You are just confused right now and need time to think it out. Just about everyone goes through this. ALso, this could jus be a crush, it happens, you will get over it, and live on. Don't worry about it.

That is mental, I feel sorry for you in this perdicament, god nose what to do

That is mental, I feel sorry for you in this pedicament, god nose what to do

ummm you are 14 gezze i doubt u r gay

It is normal to think that you are gay,but you shouldn't give in to your sinful temptation.
The bible says that homosexuality is a sin.So if you want to go to hell,then go ahead and become
a fudge-packing homo!We are living in an evil society with evil people...So if you want to become like
one of them,then go and become gay.

whoa, anonymous there is totally overeacting. you arent evil because you might be gay. and your not gay because you have one crush on a boy. find a good girlfriend, if you want, a tomboy or a girl who looks like a boy. and like the others have said, your 14! its just hormones! just whatever you do, do NOT make a move on your friend. he would get scared and tell everyone and you'll lose your best friend and your reputation.

Yea and everyone will hate you cuz your a homo.

you are 14, you dont come close to many. the guy from kiss has had thousands of girlfriends. how do you compare? and you can talk to your councellor about this type of thing without fear of being beat up.

YO man we all went through the same sort of thing at ur age IT IS ur hormones and nothing can be done to help you very much... U will just have to wait a couple yr's to see how u turn out...AND ANNOYMOUS U MADMAN BEING GAY ISNT A SIN! GOD DOESNT EXIST..hehehehehe

When I was your age being gay didn't even seem to be an option. Its normal to feel attraction to all kinds of people. Its even natural to love your fellow male friends. There is brotherly-love, the affection for acquaintences, there is attraction to the beautiful and the physically fit of both sexes, there is head-over-heels (though that sounds right-side-up to me) love for the one in your life. There is puppy-love, infatuation and burning sexual desire. If you feel some amount of these affections for a friend don't assume that you have to put yourself in a category that someone else made up to try to help them predict what people are going to do.
Wouldn't that be ironic? You took a category seriously and labeled yourself and then twenty years later you realize that you've been acting gay because you decided to call yourself gay, and how much of it was a self-fulfiling prophecy, and how much was a reflection of your true self?

right, i am almost 15 and i think u elder people have no clue about the pressure sex has on our lives, if the younger generation feel as though they want to be like 'this' being gay is something they have to tackle, how can u lead a life of sex without thinking of wether you are gay straight or bisexual- its not the consept of being gay, its how you feel- plus the fact u want people to understand. i am not gay, though i am homofobic, but i still respect gay people, and the hard choice they had to make.

fucking elder people, what the fuck is that supposed to mean.

showing respect to gays and being homophobic does not make sense.

hey, im a 14 year old girl, and i am friends with many HS students that have decided they are indeed gay, right you are 14 and i would advice you to try it, but keep in mind it might be a phase, and when and if you decide you are gay, you should have no trouble telling your friends, b/c after all if they are real friends, they will like you no matter what. i myself questioned if i was bisexual, and i no longer think i am, but time will truly tell, dont let people get to you, love is not only between a man and a women, it is between any two human beings that have strong emotions for eachother. I hope this advice helps, and if it does and you need more advice leave a comment here, and ill leave another comment for you, i deffinitly support people that are gay, it is nothing to be ashamed of, so dont worry about it, all in all you should just be yourself!

i really hope this helped you!

From Babyangel2580 (ashley)

Most people who are gay feel "different" from other people from a very young age... Like, they know from the start. So, I'm going against what most of the other people have said here and tell you that what you're feeling is normal and that if you like men more now then you probably always will.

If there's anything I can recommend, it's to find another guy to try a few things with. If you don't feel comfortable about coming out now then it's okay. You're still young.

It's like everyone says, u r probably too young to know, but find a guy to try some stuff with. I had great mutual masturbation sessions with a mate at school, now I'm happily married but still think about having some cock!

just try some minge if you really want to know.
i cant really sympathise because ive never had a crush on a girl, i only ever had crushes on guys. and only ever wanted cock,

pity your bit young to be finding that out because the satisfaction you want might be there with a guy rather than a girl.

way too early to tell
don't do n/e thing drastic like making a move on your best friend .... at least not yet it could screw up (excuse the pun) your whole friend ship and I know that alot of people have a problem with that because some mythilogical man said that you can't be a certain f*cking way because it's a sin
. but you know if you look hard enough at the bible and sh!t you'll see that essentially everything is a sin!!!! not gay but COMPLEATLY on their side! a$$hole homophobics!xP

give sum time, then decide, its hard being ur age i had problems too, but u'll figure it out let the time go, do nothing for now basically!

just cause your attracted dosnt mean anything.. al i can say is experiment.. and if you find somthing you like then stick with it.. just cause you have sex with a girl once dosnt deem you gay.. and dont listen to all those people when they say ignore it you have a couple years.. i think you should think abot it casue b/f you know everyone will be having sex and you dont want to feel lost... im not saying you should just go crazy, but i think if you have SAFE sex then experoment all you want.

Your probly just confused/curious.