Your parents are doing exactly what i would do your to young to be off gallivanting around with young men at your age. I think you should be at least 16 before your allowed to go out without some type of supervision.

You don't specify if your male or female,but I'm guessing you are a girl,because most parents praise a boy for dating,and generally do not care if they are having sex as long as they use protection. you're only 14,you're young,be thanful your parents are so careful,there are crazy people out there,even if you think that's a little far-fetched.

-dirt dobbler

i am a dude btw..i guess this is why i think it is a bit fucked up right?

cant belive my parents.

find myself loving a girl and now i cant ask her out, or even tell her how i feel

Just knowing your age tells me nothing. Are you trustworthy? How are your grades? Do you willingly perform your chores around the house? Do you obey your parents without giving them a ration of shit most of the time? Do you have any history of showing compassion or concern for others, which might include siblings, pets, friends, etc.?

These are some of the characteristics I would be looking at in deciding whether or not to allow my son to date unchaperoned. You only say that their stance is fucked up, but WHY is it fucked up? I would be interested to hear your arguments in favor of being allowed to date one on one as you address some of the personal attributes I've described above.

Why cant you tell her how you feel? Just respect your parents decisions because they are looking out for your best interests.

cuz if i do, then id kinda be fucked, knowing that i cant date, is kind of a slap to their face.

@JanlAm

my grades are good, (B- avg), i do chores if asked, i am trustworthy, and i take care of my dog by myself (walking, feeding, keeping it from barking, training, picking up after it, puting it to bed and getting it outside, and playing with it; grooming i pay for).
i have many good friends, my siblings rather enjoy my presance.


the more i read comments, the more i think my parents are over protective

and furthermore, i know my parents want the best for me, always, but the reasons for this dont add up.

their explanation is if i am dating and someone else better comes along, i wont be able to have them...

i diddnt say back but thought: "so if there is always a better person, i should never date? i guess thats how you guys met isnt it?"

and another question, does religion have anything to do with it? i am a Christian but im pretty sure that has no matter here?

Well, another thought that comes to mind is that your parents may have had experiences during their youth which suggested that most teens are powder kegs in the areas of sex and that they are also apt to experiment with new (and potentially dangerous) things. I was myself a very out-of-control teen who used drugs, had sex at a fairly young age, and had many problems fitting in with my peers. Your parents may feel that taking a conservative approach could spare you many possibly negative outcomes associated with young dating and (potential) subsequent sex, such as venereal disease, pregnancy, and relationships that are more complicated and distracting than they should be at your age. However ...

The only way you're REALLY going to get at the heart of this matter is to have an open discussion with your parents. So far, all we have is speculation. Hopefully, they'll respect you enough to be honest about their reasoning, and hopefully, you'll be mature enough to accept whatever their answer may be.

I suggest you tell them to get fucked turn to drugs and alchohol and go right of the rails thatll teach the cunts to interfere with your life

Go ahead and take advice from the whore. she has a bastard kid (s). I want to suck stargirl's titts

It's quite normal for parents to be over protective.

Society as a whole has changed from their years as a teen themselves. I guess they are just not accustomed to the new dangers/problems our generation has to face.

My suggestion to you is to openly discuss your concerns with your parents. I explained to them the similar sitution they were in with their parents.

They just want to make sure your not sucking off some black dude behind the movie theator you need to wait until your atleast 16 to let the black dudes pass you around.

I'm sure we would have been BFFs as teens, toking ourselves into oblivion and sending the parents into various emotional crises. Or are you still about 13, cunty? No matter. We could STILL be BFFs but I have to admit, I've never had a really satisfying relationship with a body part before.

If I had my way, you'd be sucking rhino "titt" right about now, Uni.

I agree with him. He tried to "sugar coat" it. I won't! Dont be a WHORE you WHORE

-crank dat

That would be lovely Jan I would even by you a cute little stash tin and a glass pipe on a chain Mwah to you sweetie