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Arrrrg!!
I met a girl over the new year, although we've known eachother since little kids, we havn't seen eachother in a very long time as she lives abroad.

She came over to study English(my mum had invited her) and at the same time I was due to visit my mum. It went really well, we didn't have sex, but we got on greatly considering she's 6 years older than me (I'm 18).

So anyway we were alone alot, and we spent a lot of time cuddling on the sofa watching TV.

Anyway.... As you all know time rolls by VERY quickly and before you knew it, it was time for me to go back south. SHE CRIED AT THE AIRPORT!!! And held my hand every step of the way, from my mum's car to the departure gates.

We spoke for a few days afterwards over the net and over the phone, I recently brought her a nice present aswell and we had arranged for me to go abroad and see her at some point this month...

I really like her and miss her, my mum tells me that "apparently" she has a boyfriend, I don't really care, but I'd give anything to back on that sofa just for 2 more minutes with her. :'(

I've never had a very serious relationship, I'm not exactly casanova...

So here's the thing, she hasn't spoken to me in WEEKS now and I feel like a right camel. As if I had done or said something wrong... =(

Can someone tell me if this is normal?
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Comments (9)
Anonymous
2006-02-02 03:14:23
Look mate thats the most normalist thing on this site, women! trust me pal let her slide cos she aint comeing back.
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Almonds (1308)
2006-02-02 05:25:11
@: Anonymous
Not exactly what I wanted to read but I suppose you're right... *Sigh*
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METHOSjr. (83)
2006-02-27 16:29:05
GetEm
Girls can be kinda Jive-Assed sometimes. Try calling her. Don't be a stonk prat.
Just feel your inner man and take your Woman-Prize.
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moonie (1027)
2006-03-04 01:22:59
Bummer...
Call her but don't let her play you! Girls can be very cruel, especially if they don't know what they want (or if they know that they can't have it).
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aawood (1744)
2006-05-07 04:15:17
I have to wonder if your mum told you that to get you to stop pining for her.

I agree with those above; call her. You'll never be sure until you do, right? Don't get your hopes up, but give it a shot.
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ahamblin (1983)
2006-05-10 09:49:49
It sounds like this woman cares for you a great deal; however, she may be having mixed feelings because you are so much younger than her. I'm guessing that when she is with you, she really enjoys your company and attention. But, I'm also speculating that when she is away from you, she isn't thinking about you. It is kind of an "out of site, out of mind" type scenario. If she is seeing someone else, that "someone" is probably filling her empty void. In all reality, she probably isn't that in to you. My suggestions is to move on. Remain friends with her. When she figures out what she really wants, the signs will be obvious. You shouldn't wait for her though.
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becca8893 (4494)
2006-12-05 22:30:30
probally since she hasnt been around u and if she has a boyfriend she proabally forgot about u
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Shavemeslowly (5177)
2007-01-11 21:43:53
give her a friendly call or email, don't go into a deep loving conversation, just ask her whats up and she will probably end up telling you what happened.
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Kurty2007 (5693)
2007-02-04 10:38:43
My advice is that she is having feelings for u but she is also keeping in mind that age barrier. I emphasize this statement: YOU NEED TO KEEP IN CONTACT IF YOU REALLY DONT WANT TO LET HER GO. When you are older, age doesnt matter so much.
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