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So i just moved here to this town a few months ago and i started talking to this girl online under my friends account cuz i didnt have one at the time and i wanted to meet some people in my area well i kind of didnt tell her and I didnt want to tell her the truth about it because we started getting pretty close she really liked me and so finally I told her the truth and we met up and stuff.

Well We started holding hands the first time we met. I asked her how she still feels about me and she said that she is really into me. Then she told me about this other guy that goes to her church.

She said that she was also into him. Well this guy is 7-8 years older then her shes 18 and his 25 going to be 26.

She said nothing is going on with them right now so im guessing all their doing is flirting..

Well her friends really hate me for lying to her! They said that her and i will never get together and thats just that because they wont let her get with me

Well we stopped talking for awhile and now were talking again. I told her i need to know whats going on and she said that she doesnt know shes too confused about everything.

See the thing is that im really nice to her and never disrespected her. I respect the fact and she wants to wait and I also cant stop thinking about her. I know i was an ass for lying to her and i tried getting her a rose and i gave it to her and her friends like freaked out on me

I dont know what to do with all this should I forget about her and just move on?

What should I do? and is it normal for me to think about her so much?
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Comments (4)
jojo_100 (9722)
2007-12-04 22:51:46
shove a sword up her ass
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slackjawedyokel (6678)
2007-12-05 04:08:24
sounds like she is a teenaged drama queen.find a sensible chick.
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Chris_Ufc (8299)
2007-12-05 06:33:29
Ok now what the hell did you lie about? Jesus Christ I still have no idea. Anyways, for the most part from my stand point you have no chance beating out this older dude. Girls will always pic the older guy just has long as he shows her intrest so give up on that part, and I'm sure hes already getting Bj's from her so dont let your heart get broke if you find out. Her friends hate you so that makes it even worse, they are the ones who see her all the time and talk to her on the phone at night and they are going to fill her ear with whatever they want about you so your screwed buddy. My advice, tell her off and stop being so nice to her just be a dick and you got a good chance that one day she will come crawling back to you. Good luck.
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JanIAm (10668)
2007-12-05 07:42:58
Yeah, Chris pretty much said it all here. This whole scenario sounds so familiar to me -- I see this sort of thing with my youngest daughter and her friends all the time. The little wenches constantly serve as judge and jury to their friends' boyfriends, and it can all get damned nasty.

The thing is, she has them whispering in one ear, and the older guy whispering in the other. Your voice is just a tiny little squeak in the distance. I think the fact that you lied to her is probably the least of the obstacles and this is likely just being used as an excuse to further drive a wedge between the two of you. I think you must face the fact that now is not the time to pursue your relationship. I would simply tell her that you care very much, but you can see that her interests and her energies lie elsewhere at this time. Then, let the ball lie in her court. If she picks it up, well and good. If not, at least you'll know where you stand.
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