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Scared!
I'm a 15 year old girl, I have a boy friend. All of my friends say i should "go with him" (snog for a long time!) but I don't know how to! should I lie and say I don't think we're ready, or should I tell him the truth, but if I tell him the truth he might think I'm weird and dump me. Is it normal to be this scared?
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Comments (19)
Yes
you bet. Just tell him how you feel. Maybe he'll understand. What the worst he could do to you?
that's very normal. go for it. tell him you're inexperienced and you'd love a teacher. guys like that.
@: jonpaul
how are you going to find out how to kiss if you dont kiss him..




I didn't know how to kiss before my first kiss. But your body does; trust it. Just go towards him, and do what comes naturally!
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Anonymous
Happend
My gf did the same thing, so finaly I was like "what's up" (It was only after 3 months.. adn we were both virgins, but I'm very...... charasmatic and get my way, so I didn't think it was going to take that long, both 15)

But that's besides the point, she told me. i giggled a little, I mean it is kind of funny, it's like, THAT'S ALL!

long story short.. we worked out the problem.....
@: a0s0e
hey
kiss not screw lol
Anonymous
A swift kick to the balls will tell him what you think.
Anonymous
you will be less nervous with a video camera in the room, then put it on the web for 99 cents a view, if you are still nervous, try with a girlfriend, using the camera and internet as well, take it from ron jeremy, its the start of a wonderful career.
totally normal
Just talk to your boy it'll all be OK. and ignore what your friends say. what do -u- want to do?
Anonymous
It's completely normal to be that scared. As long as you don't rush into things, you'll be much more relaxed and things will happen naturally. If things happen too fast you're much more likely to be nervous.
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it's normal to be nervous and if u tell him the truth (especially if he happens to be a little more experienced) he may even find it more of a turn on. don't try to pretend you're not ready if you know you are. sex can be a beautiful experience- just make sure that the reason you're so nervous isn't because you really DON'T feel ready or because your parter really ISN'T the one for you. Are you in love? Sex w/o emotional connection can be cool, but maybe not the 1st time (except in my case- I had my best friend break my hymen and show me how so that I could better enjoy my 1st time w/ that special someone and not feel SO inexperienced!) It WAS painful (age 13) but after 5x or so it got better and better i promise! Also, is there an issue with "getting caught"? How cool are your parents, etc.? If they aren't, that could be one of the worries holding you back. If that's true, hide it but when it comes right down to it tell them to fuck off- it's YOUR body. Here's another hint for the 1st time- LOTS of lube! Astroglide or a liquid is better than that gelly stuff. Best wishes, Octopus
only do it when you are truly ready! Having it before you're truly ready may be bad (STD's, pregnancy and even emotional distress!) so when you are ready and knowledgeable, then yes, do it.
YES! omg... i got wid a ladd when i was 10... snog for like 10 mins tho. :D Not Shag... =P

Roxii...x 11... :D

Luff yaah
If i was you i would just say to him when your alone with him that basically you havent done anything like this before and its your first time etc. so go easy if you dont understand what to do
go for it!! but tell him to start so that u can just pick it up from him. :)
Hey slow down!

First, you shouldn't "HAVE" to do Anything with Anyone that YOU don't want to do! Whatever your friends say, ignore...we are talking about YOU now.

YOU should do what is Right for YOU. You know what you feel and how you feel and, trust me, you Will know when you are ready to kiss a boy.

If you Are ready, but nervous about it, it is natural. Keep in mind, HE might be just as nervous as you, at y'alls ages. So don't sweat about not knowing if you are doing it right. Kissing, good kissing, is a work in progress. Each person is different.

If you are Not ready, give it time! IF he cares about you he won't give you hell (well, not to much - GUYS!) about it.

If not, you can do better.

Tobra
your 15, my age. Not necessary for sex can you handle kids, stds, unconditional attachment. IF you et that attached and break up your screwed don't do it if he lieks you he won't do that
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