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Friend's situation

My freind and I were in this 3some- I know it sounds tacky but i always wanted to try one and she has no BF and wanted to try it out too. She was a virgin, I lost mine when I was 13 and I am on the pill. She said she was too, but now she told me she's 3 months pregnant, and the 3some was about 3 months ago! She said she had stopped taking the pill 2 weeks before the 3some and thought it would still be in her system, but I think she was never on it because she didn't even know it's name! She said she only had sex once, and that was with my BF. Now she is pregnant with MY BOYFRIEND's baby! I told her she has to get an abortion, because A. we are only 15 B. He is MY boyfriend C. If she is pregnant we won't be able to drink when we turn sixteen in Feb (we were born 5 days apart)

This is so messed up. IS it normal for me to be mad and want her to get an abortion?
Do you think it's normal?
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nearly (10533)
2007-12-12 09:46:24
It seems to me you should be mad about something else. You all indulged your fantasies and she got pregnant. Do you not read the advice given in these stories? Wrap it b4 you post it? WTF were you all thinking about. You have just proved us all right when we continually tell you you are too young to be thinking about sex! FFS you have indulged in an activity that MOST ADULTS haven't. How very sad. As for an abortion. Is that what you really think? You can have your hour of pleasure and then kill a baby because it doesn't suit you? YOU, young lady, are an absolute disgrace to teenagers and the reason so many parents will not allow their children out alone. You have set back the attitudes of adults in your neighborhood some 20 years. Well done.
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Chris_Ufc (8299)
2007-12-12 16:23:28
I would have hated not being able to have sex when I was under 18 but this just prooves that maybe JUST MAYBE people should wait until they deep in a relationship and have a stable job and life that can support a kid IF they were to get pregnant. I have trouble believing this one just because I have the feeling about it but if this is real then its up to her what she does with the baby just find out for sure if she is really pregnant or missing her period because shes been sexualy active. You all decided to have sex thus now you must pay the price.
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Crookshanks (10749)
2007-12-13 07:26:49
Nice to hear you are so concerned ABOUT HER, instead of being selfish and worrying about bloody alcohol find out what she wants and how she feels, end of the day, even though it's your boyfriend you have nothing to do with the situation. BTW Wait till your old enough next time and don't share your bloody boyfriend, you all brought it upon yourselves.
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cal000000000000000000000000001 (11050)
2007-12-13 18:01:47
Oh God where do I start? Well dear you, your boyfriend, and his new lover have done it this time. I don't want to be like some of the other comments here. I mean hind sight is 20/20. It's easy to look back and say what you should or shouldn't have done. The problem now is the baby. Of course the choice is hers and your boyfriend's. You really have nothing to say about what happens. She is the legal mother and given what you've told us here, your boyfriend is the legal father. He has as much right to what happens as she does, so the decision to abort or not, will lay with them.
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