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teacher crush!!!
i have another story on here about love for a teacher, but this is more of just a crush. anyways theres a teacher at my school, we'll call this one Mr. Z & Mr. Z isn't my teacher, but I met him on the first day of school cuz i accidentally walked up into the wrong class (aka his class) & i thought he was SO hot! I didnt know his name at the time, so i spent like 2 weeks trying to figure it out & i rarely saw him so it sucked. In fact, i still rarely see him...but i have a MAJOR crush on him! it's out of this world!

He's between 29-31 years old..i dont know his exact age...i just know hes been teaching/coaching for 8 years now & most teachers start teaching at age 22 years old or around there. He's also married & has a 2-month old son.

lately, when nobody was in Mr. Z's classroom, id go up in there & leave him crush notes. all from his "secret admirer"!!! the 1st one said i had a crush on him, the 2nd one said i thought he looked real good the day before & another said for him to email me if he wanted to know who i was.

2 days ago he was in the hallway w/ the assistant principal as if they were scoping out the "secret admirer". i plan on leaving Mr. Z my last note monday telling him i am sorry for the other notes & that my intentions were good & that he doesnt know me, but we've met before & i think he deserves better than some teen girl leaving him love notes.

is my behavior normal? i know its just a huge crush but i feel like a stalker....i mean i know where he lives, i know his phone number, his whole name, his wife's name, his son's name...idk its horrible.
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cabinet70 (4440)
2007-12-15 16:16:39
He obviously has a family so it probably wouldnt lead to anything if he did know who you were. Why dont you get a pic of him and masterbate over untill the crush passes which it will in time..
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aeroboy27 (12185)
2007-12-15 16:55:17
I think ya should meet a guy you're own age, and stop messing with peoples lives. That's a teacher, not someone to play mindgames with.
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Chris_Ufc (8299)
2007-12-15 17:06:23
Its wackos like you who get teachers to cross the line and get caught getting a bj in the parking lot then get sent off to prison and loose their family. Give me a break. YOU DIDNT HAVE THE BALLS TO GO IN HIS ROOM WHEN HE WASNT THERE AND LEAVE A NOTE. ADMIT IT THIS STORY IS FAKE! GET A LIFE.
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JanIAm (10668)
2007-12-15 21:03:25
Well, I'm not sure that this is a fake, but I AM sure that Chris has the right take on the situation.

PLEASE do not place this man's career and his reputation with his family in jeopardy over a crush that is likely to pass before the end of the school year. I wouldn't bother with the apology -- just distance yourself from the whole situation immediately unless you are identified as the party responsible for the notes. THAT'S when you can do your apologizing. Until then, please stay away from this man for everyone's sake. There's no future in a relationship with him whatsoever, as I'm quite sure you already know.
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slackjawedyokel (6678)
2007-12-16 09:59:17
now i can see why youd go for older experienced guys after reading some of the crap the little boys your age post in here...but you have to remember us older guys have lives and women already....youll have to go back to your pimply faced boys for now until youre old enough to aim higher.right now youre a kid.he is an adult with an adult life.

like you said your silly behavior toward the teacher is 'horrible'.stop it before you end up looking sillier than you already are.
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Barnum (8435)
2007-12-16 10:00:36
Yeah the people who posted above me are definitely right. There's no future in all of this, so why even try. And you probably shouldn't leave any more notes, because the mroe notes you give, the creepier it gets. So distance yourself from him, let the crush pass and move on from there.

Plus, the guy is married with a 2 month old child. Don't ruin his reputation and jeopardize his career, it is not right.
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inlovewithlove1991 (11993)
2007-12-16 12:15:19
no the story isnt fake, Chris. why would i leave the note while hes in there...that would defeat the purpose of even leaving the note!!

but im not a kid..im almost 17 & yeah i realize its just a crush & i shouldnt be doing this...but i want him to notice me & maybe that wasnt the most mature way of getting him to notice me..but i dont know what else to do. besides him being reallyyyy hot, hes really nice too & a great teacher & football coach & hes just amazing. i dont want the crush to pass...i just dont know what to do. this is serious.
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Barnum (8435)
2007-12-16 12:33:34
@: inlovewithlove1991
Instead of sending him notes. Why not just go into his class, like after school and talk with him. Say you have a question to ask and just talk. It is okay to get to know a teacehr better and just to chat for awhile. But don't get too obsessed with it and don't go too far.
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JanIAm (10668)
2007-12-16 12:36:08
@: inlovewithlove1991
The very nature of a crush is that it is temporary. And the very nature of your teacher's age, his profession, and his family life dictate that you find another outlet for your affections that is more appropriate.

We can't always choose whom we love, but we CAN choose on whether or not to act on those emotions. In this case, your choice is very clear. Anything other than walking away from this infatuation could result in a great deal of pain for both of you -- but particularly for him, as he seems to be the one with the most to lose.
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inlovewithlove1991 (11993)
2007-12-16 12:57:58
Barnum-hes like never that after school...except maybe a couple times & what would we even talk about? lol

JanIAm-i hear what ur saying, but u should also know i have NO self-control whatsoever. i never have...& i cant just walk away. i get REALLY attached to people REALLY easily
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Barnum (8435)
2007-12-16 17:32:25
@: inlovewithlove1991
Then that's something you're gonna have to work on. If you can't handle just casually chatting like I suggested to get to know him then you've got to find a way to stop being so attached to him. You've got to have one ounce of self control in your body, haven't you?
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JanIAm (10668)
2007-12-16 19:23:01
@: inlovewithlove1991
You should think of self-control as you would any important skill that requires practice.

Acting in opposition to your impulses may seem unnatural and wrong at first, but if you never make any attempt to control these impulses, you'll be making the same "I can't help myself" excuses throughout the rest of your life. NOW is really the best time to start, especially since you're in a situation that really cries out for the use of your restraint and better judgment. Anything else suggests to me that you care less about this man than you do about satisfying your own ego. And considering the risks involved here, putting your own needs before his is incredibly selfish.
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Clansman147 (11907)
2007-12-18 08:30:14
Leave him that note saying you're sorry and don't leave any others... it will NEVER lead to anything
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inlovewithlove1991 (11993)
2007-12-19 14:31:16
Clansman- yeah duh i left it & it said it was my last one so why would i leave more?


anyways i have seen him everyday this week & he still doesnt know who i am..nor have i gotten caught for the notes.

i have learned some self-control but....idk.
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