teacher crush!!! http://isitnormal.com/story/20196/ Clansman- yeah duh i left it & it said it was my last one so why would i leave more' anyways i have seen him everyday this week & he still doesnt know who i am..nor have i gotten caught for the notes. i have learned some self-control but....idk. http://isitnormal.com/story/20196/#comment-213946 2007-12-19 14:31:16 Leave him that note saying you're sorry and don't leave any others... it will NEVER lead to anything http://isitnormal.com/story/20196/#comment-213007 2007-12-18 08:30:14 You should think of self-control as you would any important skill that requires practice. Acting in opposition to your impulses may seem unnatural and wrong at first, but if you never make any attempt to control these impulses, you'll be making the same "I can't help myself" excuses throughout the rest of your life. NOW is really the best time to start, especially since you're in a situation that really cries out for the use of your restraint and better judgment. Anything else suggests to me that you care less about this man than you do about satisfying your own ego. And considering the risks involved here, putting your own needs before his is incredibly selfish. http://isitnormal.com/story/20196/#comment-212799 2007-12-16 19:23:01 Then that's something you're gonna have to work on. If you can't handle just casually chatting like I suggested to get to know him then you've got to find a way to stop being so attached to him. You've got to have one ounce of self control in your body, haven't you' http://isitnormal.com/story/20196/#comment-212772 2007-12-16 17:32:25 Barnum-hes like never that after school...except maybe a couple times & what would we even talk about' lol JanIAm-i hear what ur saying, but u should also know i have NO self-control whatsoever. i never have...& i cant just walk away. i get REALLY attached to people REALLY easily http://isitnormal.com/story/20196/#comment-212726 2007-12-16 12:57:58 The very nature of a crush is that it is temporary. And the very nature of your teacher's age, his profession, and his family life dictate that you find another outlet for your affections that is more appropriate. We can't always choose whom we love, but we CAN choose on whether or not to act on those emotions. In this case, your choice is very clear. Anything other than walking away from this infatuation could result in a great deal of pain for both of you -- but particularly for him, as he seems to be the one with the most to lose. http://isitnormal.com/story/20196/#comment-212717 2007-12-16 12:36:08 Instead of sending him notes. Why not just go into his class, like after school and talk with him. Say you have a question to ask and just talk. It is okay to get to know a teacehr better and just to chat for awhile. But don't get too obsessed with it and don't go too far. http://isitnormal.com/story/20196/#comment-212716 2007-12-16 12:33:34 no the story isnt fake, Chris. why would i leave the note while hes in there...that would defeat the purpose of even leaving the note!! but im not a kid..im almost 17 & yeah i realize its just a crush & i shouldnt be doing this...but i want him to notice me & maybe that wasnt the most mature way of getting him to notice me..but i dont know what else to do. besides him being reallyyyy hot, hes really nice too & a great teacher & football coach & hes just amazing. i dont want the crush to pass...i just dont know what to do. this is serious. http://isitnormal.com/story/20196/#comment-212708 2007-12-16 12:15:19 Yeah the people who posted above me are definitely right. There's no future in all of this, so why even try. And you probably shouldn't leave any more notes, because the mroe notes you give, the creepier it gets. So distance yourself from him, let the crush pass and move on from there. Plus, the guy is married with a 2 month old child. Don't ruin his reputation and jeopardize his career, it is not right. http://isitnormal.com/story/20196/#comment-212656 2007-12-16 10:00:36 now i can see why youd go for older experienced guys after reading some of the crap the little boys your age post in here...but you have to remember us older guys have lives and women already....youll have to go back to your pimply faced boys for now until youre old enough to aim higher.right now youre a kid.he is an adult with an adult life. like you said your silly behavior toward the teacher is 'horrible'.stop it before you end up looking sillier than you already are. http://isitnormal.com/story/20196/#comment-212655 2007-12-16 09:59:17 Well, I'm not sure that this is a fake, but I AM sure that Chris has the right take on the situation. PLEASE do not place this man's career and his reputation with his family in jeopardy over a crush that is likely to pass before the end of the school year. I wouldn't bother with the apology -- just distance yourself from the whole situation immediately unless you are identified as the party responsible for the notes. THAT'S when you can do your apologizing. Until then, please stay away from this man for everyone's sake. There's no future in a relationship with him whatsoever, as I'm quite sure you already know. http://isitnormal.com/story/20196/#comment-212531 2007-12-15 21:03:25 Its wackos like you who get teachers to cross the line and get caught getting a bj in the parking lot then get sent off to prison and loose their family. Give me a break. YOU DIDNT HAVE THE BALLS TO GO IN HIS ROOM WHEN HE WASNT THERE AND LEAVE A NOTE. ADMIT IT THIS STORY IS FAKE! GET A LIFE. http://isitnormal.com/story/20196/#comment-212436 2007-12-15 17:06:23 I think ya should meet a guy you're own age, and stop messing with peoples lives. That's a teacher, not someone to play mindgames with. http://isitnormal.com/story/20196/#comment-212423 2007-12-15 16:55:17 He obviously has a family so it probably wouldnt lead to anything if he did know who you were. Why dont you get a pic of him and masterbate over untill the crush passes which it will in time.. http://isitnormal.com/story/20196/#comment-212398 2007-12-15 16:16:39 Your a whore -crank dat http://isitnormal.com/story/20196/#comment-212351 2007-12-15 14:52:38