Try typing BDSM into ure search engine. There are nearly as many sites for it as for porn. Surely that alone answers your question!
It is good to enjoy, I do like wise. Just one word of advice from an old fart if you'll allow me to indulge myself for a minute.
DON'T EVER, get into it with anyone you don't know. Also make a 'safe word' that means an instant STOP when spoken. Stear away from stop, no and silly every day words. Pick something you rarely say because in the throws of passion, no often means yes, stop often means don't you dare stop etc. Some weird word unrelated to the acts being performed like wheelbarrow or some other really obscure word.
Be safe and enjoy. GOOD LUCK.

sorry I dont talk to teen girls about bdsm.while I get scolded for even talking about the anatomy of a teen female others,who did the scolding, can then turn around and give detailed bdsm advice to a teen girl themselves.How does that work i wonder?

ew...

I have mixed feelings about BDSM, Sometimes I think I'd enjoy it,but I know that most woman who enjoy it have a very low self-esteem,and 9 times out of 10 have been sexually molested as a child. I remember as a child I used to like doing things to myself, that people do everyday in the life of bdsm, so I figure it's just another way of falling behind in life,and having insecurities.

-dirt dobbler

Totally normal keep practicing and enjoy

Yeah thats scary if you don't know a person, then it's like, Buffalo Bill, know what i'm sayin?

That's interesting.

well there's something i didnt know. Sadly i do not fit into any of these catagories as i was not molested as a child, ive been described as confident to the point of cocky, and im getting what I want in life! Mabye this is true for some people, but not for me. I think i'll just only enjoy bdsm with someone i trust completely! That should get me out of any sticky situations shouldn't it!

100% normal. =]