It is normal not to experienct an orgamsm at 17. When you are ready it will happen. Keep trying different ways and relax. If you think about it to much nothing will happen. Try watching a porn movie then have a rub that usually works. I didnt have my first real experience till I was 30.

just to let you know anything that you put in ur pussy thats not a dick doesnt count as you losing your virginity.....

You're right it doesn't,but it still will "pop the cherry".Then when you actually do have sex,it wont bleed and probably wont hurt too much.But it is perfectly normal to not have an orgasm at age seventeen.(for a female anyways.)I heard that the average age for a woman to have an orgasm is 21.

i had my first orgasim while watching sex and the city and playing with myself. beliee it or not

The trick to an orgasm is in the mind. You need to fantasize and use your imagination. Think of a person that turns you on and imagine embracing them, kissing them and as you touch yourself, imagine its them touching you. Take your time, turn down the lights, and romance yourself. Theres nothing wrong with makeing love to yourself. Its all good! And...with some practice.. it will work!

the only way to loose ur virginity is if a p**ns goes in you, not just like a pencil or sumething.

Dont beleave the bull shitt comment about if its not a dick it doesnt count. What a jack ass.
Let me tell you! If and when you find that special someone you both should always not play with yourself untill you can satisfy eachother together. This makes for pure passionate love making. Because, How can you have passion if you just satisfied yourself earlier. I tell my girl friend all the time not to play with herself because when she's with me that pussy belongs to me and my dick belongs to her. I dont ever jack off or none of that bullshitt.

You are a dumbass...Masterbation is something you do to satisfy yourself so you don't go out and get pregnant. To the girl who wanted comments, ignore this guy it is perfectly normal for you to masterbate.

god damn, everyone thinks masturbation is strange or something

shit man, you think you're ther only one that feels that way? Just do t and get it over with.

Actually its better if you can masturbate before you have sex because then you'll know something that works and you'll be able to show him.

Try more lube, slower, faster, lighter, a clitoral vibrator, different breathing patterns (it really does work), different temps, different positions, and definetely make time to get really horny before hand. Porn, erotica literature, a feather all over your body.

It is normal, sweety.

Do not worry.