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Letting go.

Ok so I just turned 22 and I'm still not where I feel I should be. But the main reason that I am unhappy is because I lost someone that I thought I would be with forever. We were together for 4 years and lived together for 3. The thing that gets me is that it was last august that we broke up and moved away from one and other. But a couple months after that we tried again but eventually in may she left me again and didn't even tell me why. But no matter what she does she is constintly in my head. I now have a new girlfriend but things are no where near as amazing as they were with my ex. I am extremly unhappy and in the last year I have started smoking, and drank more than ever. I just want my life back but know its gone. How do I get over her?? I'm just so lost and tired of thinking of her.
Do you think it's normal?
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gizzie56 (8681)
2007-12-18 19:38:24
Time will cure your problem concentrate on getting out and socializing and these feelings will fade over time. If your not happy with the girl you have now maybe its time to look for someone new.
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Footfan_90 (10400)
2007-12-18 19:47:08
if its really that serious, try a change of scenery, just to forget about what it was like
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1bdcba (12291)
2007-12-18 20:01:54
I have only been with my new girlfriend for about 2 months. She treats me right as I do her but she doesn't know that I still can not get my ex out of my mind, not even for one day. Everyone has said the same thing about time. But it honestly hasn't gotten much better. Sometimes I feel that I drink as much as I do to forget about my feelings. Change of scenery?? Wat do you mean??
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Footfan_90 (10400)
2007-12-19 04:47:39
@: 1bdcba
go to another town, move house, travel around. it will help to forget and move on
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lelouch (18752)
2008-12-23 23:35:17
"Time will heal all the wounds inside your heart now.." please remember that God always have the best reason why it's happening.. getting lost and loving that person that i know you really treasured for a long time ... i felt that feeling too and what i do was that i keep myself busy... hang out with my friends and enjoy their companies.. goodluck to you and more powers.. YOU CAN OVERCOME THAT!!
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