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is my fiance a cheating lesbian?
Ill try to make this short and not run on.

I am in a two year relationship I am now engaged. At about month 18 as boyfriend a girl friend a “female friend� came over to my place to see me, she kissed me I kissed back we mad out for about 5 min she took off her shirt, at that time I just asked her to leave I went over to my girlfriends house at 1 am work her up and purposed, I felt I knew where my heart was and I made a mistake that “SHOWED me THE LIGHT!� LOL


Side note: here and there she has expressed a attraction to girls, but “nothing really sexual� she says…

Well the day before my birthday 3 days after the engagement she goes off to a club with her best (female) friend, they have been friends since the age of 7, they are 24 now.. well at the club the get drunk and make out grouping and all in front of all these guys (she has never kissed a girl around me, she has asked in the past I have told her no) . while im at home thinking there are just having a “best friends night out� and im waiting to pick them up drunk, they go back her friends place and make out again� I get a drunk call at 5 am on my birthday from my girl telling me how she has f**ked up and if I can pick her up…

Since then a “attraction� between her sister and I have kind of reviled its self and well, her sister is the kind of woman that would truly earn and give respect to a spouse she has since moved out of state, I belive feeling for me was one of the issues.

I don’t want to use this as reason to push her away I have had “many� sexual relationships in my life time and I feel very closterfobit at times…

Also I find her looking at and masturbating to lesbian porn, also she has kept/retained friend ships of lesbian girls that we have meet via other friends at parties ect…

Im not a very relgious man but the night I met her I also really felt like god told me that if I married her she would brake my heart….i just looked at it as a crazy voice of my own in my head lol…
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gizzie56 (8681)
2007-12-20 20:36:45
Well my first question is how is it that you know what she is doing when she has a girls night out? Our are you just being presupposes? Truthfully i think you are blowing this whole thing out of proportion, if it is something that is really bothering you simply talk to her about it.

I think you both have your eyes on other people so maybe you need to take a long hard look at your relationship and decide where your priorities lie.

No offence but i found your post very hard to understand, please proof read before you post.
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Adowg (12337)
2007-12-20 20:40:48
close, but i can see how you jumped to a conclusion i'm here with a friend who was two embarrassed to make an account (the other post) i assumed that there was no way to relate the post.

so try not to connect the two post in your logic...

and i know what happen at the club because they both told me..
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gizzie56 (8681)
2007-12-20 20:42:21
presumptuous
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gizzie56 (8681)
2007-12-20 20:51:48
@: Adowg
Well there is absolutely no reason to be embarrassed to make an account no one is ever going to know who he is anyway so have him create an account and ask his question in his own words. If he doesn't want his stories associated with his user name he can go to setting and make his stories unavailable to view by anybody but him.
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gizzie56 (8681)
2007-12-20 20:52:45
@: gizzie56
I would like to give you more input but frankly you got me confused.
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Adowg (12337)
2007-12-20 20:54:50
your right i did post it way to soon so much for watching scrubs... is there a way to update the post? other then just comment after comment after comment?
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gizzie56 (8681)
2007-12-20 21:01:33
@: Adowg
Just re-post the story. But make it more legible and understandable.
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gizzie56 (8681)
2007-12-20 21:04:59
@: gizzie56
Also when you are directing a comment at a certain individual hit the reply button under his or her user name.
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Adowg (12337)
2007-12-20 21:09:25
Please ignore this post i will repost a legible copy. Sorry I copied before the prof reading.
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gizzie56 (8681)
2007-12-20 21:16:17
@: Adowg
No problem guy i have seen a hell of a lot worse. Your cool at least you post a legitimate story. Stick around here awhile and you will find out 90% of the posts in here are fake.
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