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Is It Normal?
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Please help me, its about gay/bi/friends
Ok, I'm 15 years old and i have a friend that I've known for about 4-5 years now. We are kinda close though we dont make much physical contact. He's usually cool about things like for a while i wanted to crossdress( i dont anymore) and he was like "what ever, that cool lol" and just acted normal around me. Then i told him i was bisexual (and still am) and he took it cool and still acts normal, now recently i feel more attracted to him but he says hes straight, he says he like these girls, and some like him back, but he never asks them out and has never has a girlfriend, he is also social akward a bit ( but very hot) also we both have in common that we are very femine, we like some girly music, think is girly ways, and stuff like that, although he insists hes straight. So what should i do? should i tell him i like him? i am so afraid to lose his friendship if he is weirded out by it, thanks everyone
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Comments (19)
Kill yourself
dont force it.let it happen on its own.hey it could be he IS gay but just not attracted to you.Just because he is gay doesnt mean he;ll find just any guy sexually attractive---at least im guessing it works like that for gay guys cause it works like that for straight guys.

anyway no one likes to be pressured.let him decide and youl just have to wait and see.
at least im guessing it works like that for gay guys


yea yea! lmfao
@: nearly
thanks for contributing to the discussion.
well, it got an extra 3 posts , mabe even 4 now lmfao
BI!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
agreed
of all these comments only a few made sense and only one helped...lol, any more advice guys?
is my name on the story?cause i dont see it lol, well ya this is my story :P
oh and im not attracted suxaully, like id like to sleep with him without having sex, make out, cuddle, etc....
is this normal? cause the idea if gay sex disturbs me lol so thats why im confused if im bi or not....
thanks
any more help people?please?
I might vomit. Go find a gay support group for teenagers.
homophobic much? and being gay isnt a disease dumbass
Hey now son... I was trying to help. They do have groups you can join that will help make gay men straight again and it does work has craszy as it sounds.
http://www.guardian.co.uk/weekend/story/0,3605,1183596,00.html
but ur gay whether u want to be or not, and im not really gay i still hella like chicks, but u cant "cure" gayness as if its a disease, the groups basically tells u for being "gay" or likeing men that ur fucked up and that u better change or society will not let you go anywhere in life....and i understand that your trying to help i just think that most of society is to harsh on gays and lesbians
How society acts on gays these days is much better then it was in the past so being gay is no longer the problem it once was. All I'm saying is dont think if your having gay feelings that its all over and you need to just be gay and embrace it. If you like chicks more then stick with that and forget about the guys and it will save you alot of problems you dont need in your life.
well I am bi, and there nothing wrong with being bi or gay so back the fuck off

anyway just go for it cuz if he is telling you he is not gay then he is probly telling you the truth
shut the hell up chris.
seriously, he's way homophobic, his intentions are good I guess, but he doesnt realize.
UHM, but for you my love, he sounds like he just doesn't want to be unexcepted. My gay friend, his mom would ask all the time if he was and he would deny it. It would have been awkward and not the right time I guess.
So just give him time, or maybe he just is shy. Who knows.
Cute name by the way. =]
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