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I'm a virgin, and I have some questions
Hello, I am a guy and I am still a virgin at the age of 22 and I have some questions I want to ask. The reason I am a virgin is because I've never had a girlfriend before. The reason I've never had a girlfriend is because I usually don't like most of the people I meet.
My first question is that why do some guys wish they were still virgins? I mean to me, this is kind of pointless to hear something like this because that would be saying "I wish I never experienced sex", so I mean, what's the deal? I don't see the point on what this is all about.
As for my second question, is sex the same as masturbation? The only difference I can see in the two is that sex can increase an orgasm, but I don't really see the point here because an orgasm is an orgasm. What is the difference?
Now for my third question. Why in the hell is that every-time I meet a women, I end up not liking her? Most women I meet are not my type and I absolutely wouldn't date or have no interest in them I mean, this happens all the damn time.
I am a tall and dark guy, good body built, I've also been told I'm very attractive by a lot of people. What I don't understand is why I just attract women that are completely opposite of me. Sometimes the girl is like really really huge and overweight, or sometimes the girl is black, or sometimes the girl is really old looking. I don't understand why a normal guy like me ends up with these oddballs that are not my type. The only conclusion that I have is that I'm not in the right places. But seriously, it's not a high standard to ask for a woman who is your same race, not overweight, and around your age. I'm just getting sick of the bullsh*t because I see a lot of young guys my age walking with young girls that fit their looks. I mean, this really f**king pisses me off. I'm not asking for a model, I just want to be happy.
Anyways, please help me out. Thanks.
My first question is that why do some guys wish they were still virgins? I mean to me, this is kind of pointless to hear something like this because that would be saying "I wish I never experienced sex", so I mean, what's the deal? I don't see the point on what this is all about.
As for my second question, is sex the same as masturbation? The only difference I can see in the two is that sex can increase an orgasm, but I don't really see the point here because an orgasm is an orgasm. What is the difference?
Now for my third question. Why in the hell is that every-time I meet a women, I end up not liking her? Most women I meet are not my type and I absolutely wouldn't date or have no interest in them I mean, this happens all the damn time.
I am a tall and dark guy, good body built, I've also been told I'm very attractive by a lot of people. What I don't understand is why I just attract women that are completely opposite of me. Sometimes the girl is like really really huge and overweight, or sometimes the girl is black, or sometimes the girl is really old looking. I don't understand why a normal guy like me ends up with these oddballs that are not my type. The only conclusion that I have is that I'm not in the right places. But seriously, it's not a high standard to ask for a woman who is your same race, not overweight, and around your age. I'm just getting sick of the bullsh*t because I see a lot of young guys my age walking with young girls that fit their looks. I mean, this really f**king pisses me off. I'm not asking for a model, I just want to be happy.
Anyways, please help me out. Thanks.
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But yeah, it just pisses me off on how these guys my age get girls that fit they're looks. I usually end up with women that are ass backwards from me. I feel like sticking a 12-gauge shotgun into mother nature's mouth and pulling the trigger. I am so fucking sick of this shit, it pisses me off.
secondly an orgasm with a female so so so much better than the hand.its because you got a whole female there with her tits ass pussy she gives you some oral,you give her some etc, it just all adds up to something handwhacking cant even begin to compare to.
and you may attract odd women cause you lack self confidence....how does some dorky looking dude get the hot chick you see him wlaking around with at the mall---cause he had the gut and confidence to approach and enteract with her.
you maybe attracting women who are like you---unsure of themselves and desperate for a mate.
change the vibe you give off and youll attract hotter chicks.Im not a brad pitt but I got a stunning woman because I saw her and decided that she was what a wanted.and she turned out to be super hot and a wonderful smart woman.
Change your VIBE!
It's not really a true fact that if you stopped searching for women, they will come to you. The reason why is because I remember I went a whole year without searching and nobody really came across me. Same thing happened after I just moved. In my opinion, you have to be searching for someone.
most the issues had been covered and i was just going to pass this up but thank you, some ppl are dicks
2nd answer: That depends on what the definition of "sex" is.
3rd answer: It may be that you are not as desirable as you think you are. Anyone can find a partner of the opposite sex if he or she will accept less of youth, beauty, and social position.
You will find your true mate one day just have fun whilst your young.
From the sound of your comment your problem is any of the following: A/ self confidence (either low or very arrogant) B/you have ridiculously high standards or C/ you're now so intimidated by woman because you've been a virgin so long so you'll come up with any excuse not to sleep with someone.
Or you're gay. :) that would explain it alright.