I'm a 40 year old female & over the course of my "sexual life" I have come across 2 proposals from 2 different partners asking if they could pee (urinate) on me or me on them or both. What is the deal with this??? I just don't get it. Is there any known psychological reason for someone having this particular fantasy? How does the arrousal come about for guy who wants you to pee on them or vice versa - what does it mean. Am I a prude for questioning it or not really wanting to participate? I feel pretty open & non-judgemental sexually - like to explore sexually but just not sure about this particular sexual path in regards to what it REALLY means or where it leads to. Is there any benefit to it that I'm just not getting??? I've never even imagined doing something like this & of course I've heard of it but was pretty shocked when approached to participate. I haven't agreed to do it & don't really know how to respond - it took a lot of courage & time & trust for the recent guy to ask & bring up the subject matter & I just want to know where & how this type of request comes about - and what it means psycologically. SERIOUSLY...
Thanks.
"Answerthis"
a hot girl can do whatever she wants with me
When a guy, or girl I suppose, wants to urinate on you or vice versa, it can mean several things.
Depending on the person and the level of your relationship it can be a VERY intimate act. It is something very intense, believe me!
Yes, depending on the person, it Can be a degrading act, depending on one's state of mind. The person doing it can be of the mind that they are degrading/humiliating their partner - that is sometimes the case, but that is Their feelings and only an issue to you if you make it one. Likewise having someone pee On you Can provoke feelings of degradation and such (Which some find very sexy at times) Or it can provoke a more intimate feeling.
Me, I love golden showers, though only with a guy (or girl...and I can think of one of Each I might be inclined to be with from here) that I *REALLY* like. I love having a guy urinate on me, in my face or mouth, as it is so intimate and intense.
Hell, if nothing else, a strong warm spray against one's clitoris can do wonders, and I imagine something similar might be felt by guys on their lower forty.
On the Other hand, for reasons I won't go into, a few yrs ago I went through a heavy acting out phase - at the time, I was slightly into D/s scenes, and in That respect, getting pissed on can invoke Strong feelings of "I am SO perverted"
So, the act itself depends on the state of mind.
One cavet if I may. Urine, while sterile is still urine. If you just have it sprayed over you you're fine. Getting it in your mouth or drinking it... Well, make sure (SURE!) that your partner is in good health over all, and whilst a little is okay, I would advise against guzzling the stuff.
Tobra - Resident pee freak.
Besides, when I'm on my monthly, the Last thing I am usually interested in is sex. I hear it goes the other way for some though.
October M.
YUCH!
If you try it, stick with wet sex. :)
October M.