I am 15 years old and want to start masturbating. I have tried a few things, like touching myself, but nothing seems to get me that excited. Orgasms sound great and what i feel when i touch myself doesn't match up to that. I wondered if anyone (experienced!) could help?
I'm sure you'll know it when it happens. You probably may as well keep trying. It will make it easier on your lover if you figure out how to set it off first, before you meet them. But if you don't it could be fun to discover how to set it off together.