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So I am a sucessful person and so is he. We fell in love and lived together for 3+ year. We both had kid/s from previous relationships. They all got along. Life was great but we in some respects just werent working out. We both agreed we needed to move on. I needed to grow and he wasnt the marrying type he said. Now 3 year later I am not over him. I go on with a normal good life my child is happy and I am still sucessful but I am not happy. I put him out of my thoughts but have not been able to date. I dated for a year after we ended it and it was horrible. No one was anywhere near what I wanted or as good a fit as he was. And now I get the news he is engaged. I find myself depressed and just so overwhelmed. Aren't you suposed to get over ex's. I mean eventualy? Its been 3 years and I cant seem to. Is something wrong with me, is this normal? We don't talk and don't see each other. We talked 3 times in the past 3 years and saw each other once it was to akward we still had feelings a year later but didnt want to go back to the past. I am active and get into hobbies to keep busy. Well nowhere else to turn. Is this normal?