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Between 2005 and 2006, I was in love with a teacher. Now, I've fallen in love with another teacher. He's 25 years old (turning 26 this month) and he's married. I'm turning 17 exactly three days after he turns 26. Anyways, he was my teacher last year and early in the school year, he found out I had feelings for him. After that, he started acting really weird when it came to me. Sometimes he'd ignore me and other times, he'd be noticing me a bit too much. He sat next to me in class twice and for no reason at all. Another time, he was helping my friend fix our microscope (he's a science teacher) and his arm was like pretty much on top of my arm and we both didn't move our arms (we just let them touch for at least a minute). This year, I still see him everyday mostly and we haven't said one word to each other all year except for a couple of weeks ago, he finally said hello to me and I stupidly didn't say anything back because I was so shocked. He's been acting really weird all year, though, because at times he'll stare at me and sometimes we hold each other's glances for longer than they should be held. Once I was walking passed his classroom right when he was closing the door and we stopped and stared at each other for at least 2 seconds and we didn't say anything. Another time i was sitting in first period and he was in the hallway talking to my teacher and I looked over and he was just staring at me.
What do you think? I'm so confused about him!
What do you think? I'm so confused about him!
Do you think it's normal?
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The arm touching thing if its true is a real sign he wants to bend you over. When two people are attracted to one another they tend to touch when they are close whether its elbows or just their shoulders. Its a sign.
This guy cannot fuck you. Please give him a break and dont play into his stupidity or else you will be known has the girl who got the teacher fired. Find a guy your age or a good pedo off this site.
It isn't that I can't have a relationship with him, he's just married. I don't even understand why he's with this woman because she's a crazy alcoholic whore, but regardless...if he wasn't married, I may have a shot? But...I'd never break him and his wife up.
Has he told you yet that he loves you? Did you ever think maybe hes just attracted to you but would never take it to the next level? Just maybe hes a flirt and your just one of the hundreds of girls that have been in his class and he has flirted with. Give it up.
No scratch that i still dont believe you. I mean you say "between 2005 and 2006 you were in love with another teacher" bullshit bend over and i will teach you the art of dogie style fucking.
Dating older men will only give you more problems trust me. Your going to have nothing in common with them because they are so much older then you and sooner or later your relationship will colapse.
You are not even old enough to buy smokes yet but your ready to fall in love with a guy who has already graduated college and gotten married? Your not has matture as you think you are trust me.
We are not you and we do not have feelings for this guy so we see if from an over view of what is wrong and what is right and this is wrong in so many different ways.
This guy is never going to ask you out and he is never going to ask you anything out side of school related. Unless you step up and tell him how you feel then nothing is going to happen and the way I see it your not going to say shit so all this love and fatal attraction your feeling is going to be for nothing so stop while you still can.
You claim to have loved another teacher a few years back. That shows your easy to fall for older guys or "father figures" you could say. I wouldnt be suprised if you dad is either a dead beat or was never there in the fist place. The healthy thing for you to do is get a boy friend that is your age and stop hurting your self. NEVER SAY HE IS THE REASON YOU ARE LIVING!!!!
My dad died 8 and a half years ago (so don't fucking say he was a deadbeat or anything like that), so no I don't have a father and yes maybe I do fall for older guys fast, but again, I cannot help it. I see a man and if they are attractive, I try to see beyond that, so I get to know their personality, and then it goes on and on and eventually the feelings get stronger. I've had some sort of feelings for at least 5 other teachers, so I realize how much I'm looking for an older, male figure to look up to, but it always ends up turning into something more for me.
I don't know what I'm looking for exactly when I get feelings for these men.
Knowing this you should be more aware of your problem. You should know that your going to fall for older men and its NOT love your feeling its the need for that father figure in your life. You should put your self in other situations that dont envolve you and his arm touching for a whole minute or you and him staring one another down in the hall without saying anything. You need to grow up and stop chasing impossible men. I doubt this guy ever looses a wink of sleep about you while you spend night after night thinking of him constantly planning out your marriage and all that happy shit.
You knew when you wrote this story that everyone was going to tell you it isnt going to work and that you should get out of the situation but yet you chose to argue a retarted point of you thinking there might be a chance some day between you and him. The facts are your dreaming of something that will NEVER Happen and if you cannot take someone telling you that then maybe you should have never asked.
Me and gizze have both told you our honest opinion and yet you have decided to play it off like we are a bunch of assholes so there for we dont care anymore. You have fun with this guy and I hope 10 years from now you look back and realize what a retard you were.
And for the record, you both just need to shut the fuck up because you don't know what you're talking about.
Besides, when did I EVER say I'd have a chance with him while he's still married? Yeah, stop putting words in my mouth.
So me being older and wiser I dont know what I'm talking about? I dont know anything because I'm not in love with a married man? Explain to me who knows what your talking about then. If you know who these people are that know then maybe you need to find them and ask them what you should do.
Degrading people who are giving you their honest opinion is no way to go.
and what makes you think you're wiser, anyway? just because you're older doesn't mean shit.
But, you find me an older unmarried man and then we'll see because I sure as hell don't see any around here.
I was saying you wont tell him how you feel and neither will he so nothing will end up happening. So thus this is all a waste of time in the first place.
Listen to Gizzie. YOu have nothing in common with older men.
I realize I should probably be "chasing" after a guy my own age, but it just isn't that easy. I tried that twice in the last 2 years and the first guy didn't see me "that way" and the other guy thought of me like as a "sister" because he was practically over at my house everyday since he's my brother's closest friend. That's when I just gave up on trying to find somebody my own age.
I honestly can't help that I get stuck on guys in their 20's and 30's and such and believe me, I wish I could change it because it really does hurt from time-to-time, but that's just who I am and everybody who REALLY knows me, knows that.
Hope This Helps!
-Ashley