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using before I knew i was pregnant
This is awful but I have just found I am 6 weeks pregnant but have been using speed heavily during this time. I have no idea whether the baby would be ok. Should I have an abortion?
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Yep. It'll probably miscarriage even if you don't. Plus you don't sound like the best of all possible parents.
Anonymous
Yup.
Anonymous
Go see a doctor. And about that best of all possible parents comment: Who had these parents?
Anonymous
NO dont get an abortion. It was your fault in the first place for taking the drugs knowing that you had sexual intercorse and there was a possible chance for getting pregnate. Alot of kids turn out just fine if the parent uses drugs and a lot of kid dont. Its a 50/50 really and if you get an abortion thats the same thing as murder. Abortion is never the right alternative to anything wether it was rape,teen pregnancy, using drugs or whatever there is always adoption!
I ate some curry today that contained pieces of a chicken that was once smarter than the fetus inside you right now. You might have an emotional attachment to the bugger, but it doesn't even have a sense of pain yet. ABORT! ABORT! ABORT!
Anonymous while you are entitled to your opinion...you are full of shit. No woman should be forced to carry a baby if she was raped, and this female here has a right to abort a baby if she wants to even if she wasn't. IT's CALLED REPRODUCTIVE RIGHT. If you don't like abortion, don't do it yourself, and if you are a man, then fuck off, no male can comprehend what it is like to have to carry a baby that is unwanted.

I apologize for my outburst but I seriously can't stand people that force their own opinions upon others and tell people they are wrong for doing what is right for them.

Though you should consult a doctor before you make the decision, it is a very serious choice, and you should be well aware of all the chances before you decide to go ahead and abort the pregnancy. It's all a matter of if you want the baby if it is going to be okay. I am sure there are tests the doctor can run to check the fetuses health.
Anonymous
vile well you are stating your opinion and being pretty forceful about it so why dont you shut the fuck up. Pretty soon abortion will probably be illegal because of the good republicans in office they are starting to pass way stricter laws on it. hopefully it will become illegal and then if you get an abortion it will legally be considered murder! It is murder no matter what. So if you want to murder your unborn child be sure you are ready to handle the consequences that come along with that after you die bitch.
anoy...you are full of shit! (respectfully)
listen here chum bottom, the "good republicans" in office don't give a fuck about those fetuses as soon as there born ..yeah they are real interested in telling women what to do with their little baby fetus meat but as soon as that thing pops out and gets on welfare they don't give a crap! the world is full of people who are already starving, poor, retarded from drugs and generally screwed...and anti abortionist just want more I guess but heres my question...are you going to take care of that meth baby? is god? don't force your moral or religous opinons on people, and they won't force their meth babies on you.
My bet is that anonymous is a man, and he is probably a rapist as well. Forcing a woman to have a baby she doesn't want is just as bad as rape. It's forcing something upon her body which she doesn't want to have. Therefore, all your "good republicans" will be raping thousands of women across the country. Oh and guess what? All those republicans are men. Fancy that. It's so easy to be anti-abortion when you are a man who doesn't have to deal with it.
Anonymous
For your information im a woman dipshit. And abortion has more emotional effects on the woman then just simply putting it up for adoption so go to hell!
Anonymous
@: Jeni
your a bush administration jack azz!!!!!!! your whats wrong with this world not her!!!!!!
abortion isn't the way to go, you'll become attatched to your unborn child, and always wonder "what if I had a baby"
Has the father given his input on this matter?
HAving a kid come to you after 18 years asking why you didn't want them is also very emotional. There was a reason you didn't want that kid, but they will eventually track you down and harass you. It's also pretty hard of that kid knowing that their mother didn't want them. Idiot.
yer a bit quick on the old death bit
retard
@: Jeni
what about the consequences of you calling the woman a bitch? you are a hater. you probably think welfare and food stamps are wrong too, dumb ass!
Anonymous
the question is whether or not you are in a position in life, financially, emotionally, and physically to handle rearing a child, and a child who may be negatively affected by the meth. it doesn't sound like you are ready for that. i was born in 1961, and since that time the world population has more than doubled. i have 3 children, but had 3 abortions and 1 miscarriage. i know for certain that my life would be totally different and unmangageable if i had 7 kids. it is no picnic to go through an abortion, and it has its risks as does pregnancy. good luck in your decision, and make sure it is your own. once made, then don't look back. but please get off the meth...it turns people into theives and drives them insane. i'll bet the hostile young republican is on it now.
i know people like you, all fucked frum that meth shit, i bet your only like 16 or 17 stuck wit a kid and a very hard desision 2 make. i aint hatin and im sorry you got fucked up while you where prego, you should consider life 5 years from now on meth,it aint fun trust me
Anonymous
freaks everywhere
dont listen to these people...i did coke up until i was 6 weeks pregnant and i was drinking too much as well, because i was not supposed to be able to have children...i had no idea that something like this would ever happen...and i worried night and day that something bad would happen...but he is 10 now, blonde and gorgeous and perfect...gifted...tremendous athelete...i think the placenta is a barrier that is more powerful than we know...just relax and love your baby...hormones make you think all kinds of things...and dont listen to these cruel people
Hey,
Don't abort. You will regret it later. I too had a baby after doing some things I wouldn't have been doing if I knew I were pregnant. My little guy is totally fine and a wonderful baby. He is very healthy and happy. You just have to change your ways starting right now! Get clean, eat healthy and take a good pre-natal vitamin. The best ones are organic and come from the health food stores.
noooo dont have an abortion
just make sure you stop taking speed.
an do nottt have an abortion you will definately regret it. i think you should ask a doctor about it and ask if they think the baby will be ok
but if he reckons that you should have an abortion then.. i just think you should do what the doctor suggests
who cares if the baby is retarded from your drug taking? will that make you love them less? will they be teased from other kids? if so, go to a special school.

the thing is there shouldnt be any unwanted pregnancies in the first place.
Abortion not only kills a baby, but it can kill you too. if you dont have a weak stomach check this out http://www.mttu.com/abort-pics/
its horrible, i know it made me cry
Abortion is the right thing to do if you are unsure about a child. If you disagree I hope you get fucking killed. How dare you tell a woman not to do something, fuck you. You don't own her. A woman should never be treated bad or disrespected.
you know you are pregnant now, so i hoped you stopped using, and go to a doctor, you can get an ultrasound and other tests, it may not be too late, if you want to keep the baby.
To xXjeniXx I had a look at that site and it is anti abortion propoganda. How didi this girl get pregnant probably so strung out she forgot to take the pill if she took it at all. There are enough drug dependant babies born as it is and they are born in agony. She is obviously not responsible enough to have a baby and her priorities arnt in order
Thats what abortion looks like, the babys dont simply dissapear like everyone would like to think. theres many other websites that have pics like that that arent Pro-Life.
The baby is likely fine, assuming you stopped using when you found out about the pregnancy. Some of the folks who have commented on this post seem to think that abortion is a type of birth control. I believe if you have more than one abortion(for reasons not rape related or life threatening for the mother), you should be sterilized.
those photos are so gross.
I could never live with myself if i would kill a 7 month old.

After a few months, killing it becomes a living nightmare.

The reality is that the the child 2 minutes before is excactly the same as 2 minutes after leaving the womb.
exactly mimir, Its a child from the moment of conception it already has a heartbeat within a couple of week i believe.
To the original poster of this comment you are not alone out there. there are people in your shoes right now trying to make a decision based on the same choices you have right now. Whether or not you have not made your decision yet and need some one to talk to my email address is triple_B_B_B@myway.com. Just remember that If a girl has become pregnant and has EVER done drugs in her life there are the same chances of birth defects as if the person was using during the first 2 months
For those of you insensitive assholes out there you can not give anybody advice on keeping or terminating a pregnancy until you know all the facts. Who are any of you to judge this girl based on her admitting to drug use. At least she realized early on in the pregnancy. It is never to late to quit.
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