IS SHE NORMAL???
I am 20 years old and I believe that I am a go getter.I have been with this girl for 4 years and we have a son together and another kid on the way with her.She is a year younger than me so while she was finishing high school, I was working and got us an apartment.Towards the end of our lease she left me because I kept getting mad that i would work and have to come home and clean the house and cook the food because she didn't want to.After hearing the real reason she left, her mother told her that i was right and she was wrong.So since HER MOTHER told her that she should be the one to do all if not help with the house work, she wanted to get back together but it was towards the end of my lease so I decided to move back in with my mom and go to college.I worked a full time job for 20 months and went to school at nights full time during that time also.I would leave at 7:30 in the morning and come home at 11:30 at night monday through friday for the most part.She finally got a job even though I wanted her to alot sooner than she did, and got a car(which was a dumb move because she worked part time and only made alittle over 300$ a month which was just enough to pay for the car which meant I had to constantly give her gas money.).She worked at nights when i was in school so I only got to see her and my son on the weekends which consisted of me laying around the house because I was gone 80 hours a week working and going to school.So I admit I wasn't the best father in the world but if he wanted toys or anything I would ALWAYS get it for him.I would try to recuperate over the weekend for all the work I did during the week.This went on for 20 months .*this is something important for you to know, her mother doesn't work and her dad works 2 jobs with the same schedule I did with both work and school and all he does is sit on the couch and sleep during the weekend.*Throughout the time I was going to school, she kept pushing for an apartment and I had to keep telling her, "I only make 10 dollars an hour and if you would even get something better than a minimum wage jb we could be together because if not were going to have to wait until I finish school to get one.Well, I finished school on March 10 which was a friday and I think she just assumed that since i'm finished, i now suddenly have money even though I haven't looked for a job yet.On march 13th, she told me that she needs an apartment now and I explained that I have to get a job first. I even told her that I wanted to get rid of my car and she could pick me up from work for only 1 month so I can save up.She then said she could not take 45 mins out of her day to pick me up at 3:30 because she had to be at work at 6:00.WTF??? Iwas pissed and she started crying saying that she was stupid for waiting so long and she knew when I finished school I was going to leave her.She broke up with me and said I dont love her(she left with my son)excuse me for trying to better myself and trying to so something for US!