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36 year old buff male, I feel awful!
I'm a 36 year old buff male, I have always been against affairs and I always thought that I would be loyal (it's just always been in my character) But last night I lost myself, I decided to go to the bar...I thought a few drinks would ease my saddness (I've been pretty down in the dumps lately) Then all the sudden this really hot guy started hitting on me...I tired so hard to resist...but damnit he made me feel so...pretty. Long story short- we ended the night giving eachother blowjobs.

I cheated on my Quincy and I want to forget about the whole thing. I think it would do no good if I told him but I don't want to be dishonest. Should I tell him?
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I posted this! :(
Wow you look so buff.
Are you saying that becuase of the new pic in my profile? I took that back in the late 90s to cheer up my man while he was at work...what can I say? I was a 28 year old kid
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Mark, that guy in the pic is another man. Show your true self.
That man is me, It is an older photo though.
Hmmmm Where is Quincy now?
He's sleepin' on the couch.
You should go wake him up with a good blow job
Honestly, the last dick to be in my mouth was that stranger's at the bar. Quincy and I would normally be sexing up a storm, but I haven't been able to put out because I've just been feeling so guilty.

Whata ya think Chris, should I tell him what I did, or pretend like it never even happend and let the guilt eat away at my soul?
I think you should tell him. I have trouble living with lies my self so that is what i would do. If he breaks it off with you then you cant blame it but if he really loves you and understands your feelings on your mistake he might give you another chance. Wouldnt you want him to tell you if he cheated?
you lied to me about key west
Well, Quincy has had emotional affairs (not sexual) and I found it in my heart to forgive him, but I gave this guy a deep throat blowjob.Honestly, I'm not sure if I could forgive myself.
I never lied to you. I only told stargirl about a faster means to get to Key West. If you drive there it is a long ways from here...

Did you swallow for this stranger? You could have an std mark. Mark wouldnt appreciate you bringing that home to him.
Listen here mister, I may be a horny man BUT I am not a slut, CONDOMS are to be worn at all times during casual sex.
Well, bigdaddy, since you asked -- as someone who did plenty of cheating in her day, I suggest that you NOT tell him, unless there's a substantial risk of him finding out. Confessing is sometimes the ultimate act of selfishness. Once you unload to clear your conscience, which can be a relief for you, now he's left to cope with the knowledge that you were unfaithful, which is a burden for him.

No, do the right thing and keep this one to yourself. Although honestly, if you don't feel that you are capable of remaining monogamous in this relationship, you really do owe it to your partner to bring this out in the open so both of you know where you stand if this sort of thing happens in the future. This gives him equal opportunity to determine his own direction in the relationship as well.
@: JanIAm
I really would never tell him if I didn't think he would find out from another source. A mutual friend of ours was with me when things started heating up with that stanger...he saw us making out. I just hope he'll keep his mouth shut, then I'll be able to turn the page in this book called life.
get some pussy you sick fuck
Jan is absolutely correct. As for you. You are just depressed because you now realise you can't have Chris. GET OVER IT ARSEWIPE!
There is NO excuse in this world forbeing unfaithful to you partner. No matter what your sexuality. You, in my mind, are the lowest of the low.
Now phuck off and stew in your conscience you slapper.
@: JanIAm
Jan you were a cheater? I'm shocked!
"WAS" is the operative word here. I was a real jerk in my day, and I like to think that I now serve as a kind of beacon to others to NOT take the path that I took. I was quite the wild one as a much younger woman, and I paid for it dearly.
@: JanIAm
Jan I never would have thought. Well you seem reformed now and that deserves alot of credit.
@: JanIAm
I think I would be safe to say I am your male equivalent! I hope the years have made me a better man for my experiences. However, no one can be 100% sure they are in charge of themselves. It does no harm to keep a tight reign on ones self.
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