love sex, not orgasms
I'll get right to the point: I love sex. I want to do it all the time. But the thing is, I never come during sex. I have to go home and do it myself. But I don't care; it's like I don't have sex for the orgasm; I just like having sex. Is this weird?
Atleast it will fool your partner into thinking he/she is not a worthless piece of human waste.(he is)
There are many things about sex that make it enjoyable, besides just the orgasms. But if you and your lover are interested in seeing that you get the most out of it that you can then you can explore your body together and learn how to bring you to climax.
If you know how to bring yourself to orgasm while masturbating on your own, then you are ahead of many women. You can use what you know, tell your lover and maybe even show him how you do it. Let him try, and then maybe if he tries a few other things he can learn how to make you cum in different ways. You might even learn to cum during intercourse. Or you may not.
But its good that you enjoy it anyhow. And yes, it is normal.