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Is It Normal?
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So theres this boy...
ok..i'm a pretty attractive girl i think. though, im not conceited. alot of guys (& sometimes even girls) try to get with me..but i usually turn most of them down..because they just dont interest me. well recently i met this guy..& i actually approached him..which i usually definitely dont do, because i'm usually the one getting approached. ok..so when he first started talking to me, he was all into me..but then i started calling alot seeing when we would hang out. & i think thats where i turned him off. because now he's saying he's not into relationships..if that was the case, he should've told me from the beginning! when we exchanged numbers, i actually forgot about him (for a minute there) but then he called me! so whats up with the sudden change of heart? was it because i bugged him too much? is he trying to hide something..like another girl?..or does he really want to be with me & afraid to admit it?..because i know he likes me..or maybe he really is just telling the truth & because of past relationships, he doesnt want to go through that drama again & be hurt? obviously i've tried talking to him about it & if the reason is bad, obviously he isn't gonna be honest with me. hopefully he just really doesnt want a relationship though & it wasnt me..maybe this is just eating me up because he's really the first guy i've ever approached & the first to "turn me down"..sorta..what do you guys think? honest opinions but please be nice..thanks!! :D
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Comments (4)
You might talk too much, ride his ass too much, or maybe he might just be keeping his options open. Try texting instead of talking on the phone, it allows him to visualize you the way he wants too. And don't try to make contact all the time.
Play the game girl, don't contact him and he'll eventually think you lost interest and chase you (Harsh but whatever it works)
just leave him alone or be friends
thanks so far for all the comments everybody! :D & i think you guys are right..i think i bugged him too much :( i'm gonna take your advice & "let him breath" a bit..its not like i dont have plenty other options lol it'll be hard to "just leave him alone" but i'll give it a try. & yea i'm definitely already playing the game lol because i flirt with other guys all the time. again, thanks! :D
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