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Is this considered cheating?
Okay guys, here's the story. I'm 16 years old. I've been going out with this amazing guy since June 5th of 2007. This is the longest i've ever dated someone. Our relationship is perfect, and I feel like it's perfect. We never had a problem with flirting with other people, we never even really pay attention sexually to other boys/girls. It's just us two. We are attracted to eachother, no one else.

But.. about a week ago, I met this guy on the internet. Please take this seriously, guys. Just a friend, you know. Amazing person. Then we started getting to know eachother, flirting sometimes. For me, my beliefs is internet flirting doesn't really matter to the both of us in me and my boyfriend's relationship. It's the internet, right? Not like your going to meet em.

But anyways, I talk to this guy whenever i'm not busy or talking to my boyfriend on the phone. We've really gotten to know eachother, and I have the sickly feeling in my stomach that i've developed somewhat feelings for him.

Agh. Seriously, I hate this. What should I do? I love my boyfriend to peices, but this guy understands me. We have alot in common. I don't want to EVER break up with my boyfriend, but I still have this guilty feeling in my head.. what is it, guys? I feel like i'm cheating. Is this normal?

Should I break connection with him off totally just like that? Should I keep talking to him, and try to supress those feelings? Advice, please.
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Comments (5)
cabinet70 (4440)
2008-01-27 01:05:40
He understands me what your boyfriend doesnt. You are only young and need to get out and enjoy yourself not be tied down in a relationship at such a young age. Thats why your flirting and chatting online. The word flirting should be replaced by the word cocktease coz thats what your doing
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brothershamass (380)
2008-01-27 02:10:21
As far as I can gather, you haven't taken this man penis into your mouth, vagina, anus you also haven't wanked him off, so I would say it's not cheating.

But, how would you feel if you boyfriend was doing the same as you?
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mm_2184 (10774)
2008-01-27 08:01:25
you know what you are doing goes against your own morals or you wouldnt have to ask about it.whatever you do in life be able to look at yourself in the mirror after its over and youll be okay.
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Chris_Ufc (8299)
2008-01-27 08:10:12
Well I always knew the turd would come back.
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danknasty (15400)
2008-07-28 02:48:47
stop talking to him

just because it's the internet doesn't mean it isn't real

it'll become cheating, if not already
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