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He still hangs and talks to her

My boyfriend and his ex still talk and hang out
this bothers me, but not nearly as much as it does since he talks to her on the phone while me and him are hanging out, and doesnt make much of an effort to get off of it with her even though he says something like 'oh gosh she doesnt shut up' after he does hang up. and plus, obviously he wants to talk to her since he answered the phone.
how conderned should i be, if at all?
i would tell him it bothers me but i dont want to seem like a controlling bitch.
Do you think it's normal?
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Comments (9)
Tell him !
It's just plain rude that he's taking her calls when you are with him. When you are with him, he should be giving you your complete attention, after all YOU are his girlfriend right? By all means tell him that you don't like it.
Yeah, let him know it bothers you, just don't go on about it, y'know, like women do.
Sounds like he's still got a reason to carry on a 'relationship' with her...
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I'd be fucking pissed. She's probably doing it to pissed you off and to try to get back with him.
dude, just talk to him and let him know how you feel and that its rude to talk to anyone on the phone while your hanging out unless it is important or at least try to make an effort to get off. your a good person by not wanting to be a bitch about it, but you should let him know how it makes you feel! maybe he will understand.
"Dude just talk.." If you've read the post at all you've realized she's a GIRL you fucktard, otherwise he've said he was a totally fag.

Anyway, yeah you should tell him that you don't like that... but hey, he might want a threesome with you and his ex...
It's either a) He still likes her and is too much of a pussy to tell you.

or b) He is too much of a pussy to tell her to f**k off.

And definitely she is trying to break you guys up. Girls are evil like that.

Tell him to either stop answering her calls because he shouldn't be chatting on the phone for long amounts of time when he's hanging with you no matter who it is, or if he does answer, to tell her he's busy and he'll call her back later. This is just a matter of manners. It sounds like either you guys are really young or he's a wimp.
ok here goes.... you're absolutely right, you don't want to be controlling and you can't prevent your boyfriend from talking to his ex. But, you can simply tell him it is rude to talk on the phone while he is with you. This has nothing to do with who he talks to but the matter that he directs his attention away from you while with you. He can answer the phone but then needs to tell the person politely he is busy and that he will call them back later.

I see this all the time, rude behavior by people with their cell phones. So, let him know you don't appreciate him spending time on the phone with others when you are with him. This is the proper thing to do. If he continues to do it after you inform him, then he's an inconsiderate guy and you best drop him.
If you haven't broken up with him yet you are dickwhipped and his little bitch so i suggest you get on those knees and start sucking!