My boyfriend and his ex still talk and hang out
this bothers me, but not nearly as much as it does since he talks to her on the phone while me and him are hanging out, and doesnt make much of an effort to get off of it with her even though he says something like 'oh gosh she doesnt shut up' after he does hang up. and plus, obviously he wants to talk to her since he answered the phone.
how conderned should i be, if at all?
i would tell him it bothers me but i dont want to seem like a controlling bitch.
Anyway, yeah you should tell him that you don't like that... but hey, he might want a threesome with you and his ex...
or b) He is too much of a pussy to tell her to f**k off.
And definitely she is trying to break you guys up. Girls are evil like that.
Tell him to either stop answering her calls because he shouldn't be chatting on the phone for long amounts of time when he's hanging with you no matter who it is, or if he does answer, to tell her he's busy and he'll call her back later. This is just a matter of manners. It sounds like either you guys are really young or he's a wimp.
I see this all the time, rude behavior by people with their cell phones. So, let him know you don't appreciate him spending time on the phone with others when you are with him. This is the proper thing to do. If he continues to do it after you inform him, then he's an inconsiderate guy and you best drop him.