dude i was jsut like you man at 14 i didnt have a girl u need to go to a party and learn some game, game cant be taught u just learn it urself , oo another way to get girls is by finding them through mutual friends or like if u need help to c what girls like and what girls dont like jsut do what i did i have a girl best friend who always hooks me up with her friends as long as i return the favor with my guy friends