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I'm stuck.

I have been living with my boyfriend for 9 months... but i dont want to anymore.

Everyone who hasnt been through this....just dont post.

He acts like he cares more about video games and poker than he does me... he will be playing a game and I'll kiss him on the cheek...'what the f**k, I'm in a game, why dont you cook dinner.'

But when he isn't doing that... he's slapping my ass, grabbing my boobs (it hurts alot), and trying/forcing to get me naked. i'll ask if he thinks i seriously enjoy that.... then he goes in the bedroom and pouts for a half hour. (he's 28 yrs old) when he comes out, he does it again

this guy is holding me back... he wont let me go back to college. he doesnt like me hanging out with my friends unless he comes, and i cant sleep over anyones house. if i try to do any of these things... he will call or text every half hour...or even go as far as to show up... it annoys my friends and I ,so I just leave.

ive never cheated on him, never thought of cheating on him... thats scummy....i'm not sl*tty, but he acts like i'm f**king everyone if he's not there.

I'm stuck... how can I move out, or at least help him understand what he's doing is creepy. It's harder than it sounds to just leave. I'm losing/lost all of my friends because of him

im in my early 20s, he in his late 20s
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Comments (6)
Slackjaw? Did you post this? Just move out and break up with him slack no need to be stuck in this kind of a situation.
You're dealing with a guy who has the maturity level of a 13-year-old. He appears to have very little self-esteem, and his lack of trust in you reflects that. He also lacks respect for you, which is reflected by his physical aggressiveness. Last, he fails to honor your need to have control of your own life by not supporting your wish to return to college or to spend time with your friends.

His fascination with the video games and poker may just be his way of disconnecting from the world. He sounds like a frustrated and angry person in general; the type of guy who is probably not going to be very open to free communication on this particular topic. However, you can only give it your best shot. If it only meets with another pout and/or abusive behavior, your only choice is to begin the task of finding other living arrangements. As you describe him now, I don't see a very bright future with this man. He has some serious growing up to do, and I don't think it's going to happen overnight.
misseh, quit shinin' his shoes an' polishin his knob, oh yes sah miss Daiseh!
@: NlGGER
NlGGEr- your not funny anymore.
nigger... all of your posts are missus shining shoes.... go die somewhere.
You're in the early stages of an abusive relationship. All the classic signs are there. Move out NOW, before it gets harder.
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