AHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!
I'm stuck.
I have been living with my boyfriend for 9 months... but i dont want to anymore.
Everyone who hasnt been through this....just dont post.
He acts like he cares more about video games and poker than he does me... he will be playing a game and I'll kiss him on the cheek...'what the f**k, I'm in a game, why dont you cook dinner.'
But when he isn't doing that... he's slapping my ass, grabbing my boobs (it hurts alot), and trying/forcing to get me naked. i'll ask if he thinks i seriously enjoy that.... then he goes in the bedroom and pouts for a half hour. (he's 28 yrs old) when he comes out, he does it again
this guy is holding me back... he wont let me go back to college. he doesnt like me hanging out with my friends unless he comes, and i cant sleep over anyones house. if i try to do any of these things... he will call or text every half hour...or even go as far as to show up... it annoys my friends and I ,so I just leave.
ive never cheated on him, never thought of cheating on him... thats scummy....i'm not sl*tty, but he acts like i'm f**king everyone if he's not there.
I'm stuck... how can I move out, or at least help him understand what he's doing is creepy. It's harder than it sounds to just leave. I'm losing/lost all of my friends because of him
im in my early 20s, he in his late 20s
His fascination with the video games and poker may just be his way of disconnecting from the world. He sounds like a frustrated and angry person in general; the type of guy who is probably not going to be very open to free communication on this particular topic. However, you can only give it your best shot. If it only meets with another pout and/or abusive behavior, your only choice is to begin the task of finding other living arrangements. As you describe him now, I don't see a very bright future with this man. He has some serious growing up to do, and I don't think it's going to happen overnight.