I Can't Stand Little Kids! http://isitnormal.com/story/22970/ you're a fucking cock sucker, kids need to piss and shit and even throw up, we all do genius, so learn to accept it or live a miserable lonely life for selfish bitch http://isitnormal.com/story/22970/#comment-273956 2008-11-18 05:19:12 'kay. I just replied a couple of times HERE: http://isitnormal.com/story/2707/ . As you can see, I don't like children and I don't have ANY intensions of EVER having them. Let me start by saying I understand how you are feeling and I totally understand your frustrations. H.O.W.E.V.E.R. You ARE in a relationship with a guy that was stupid enough to procreate. His daughter will be there, ALWAYS, no matter if you like it or not. ALL I am telling you is: "Please don't screw things for yourself just because you can't stand her." You are there for your BF. I can be cynical and tell you "you're young, perhaps you'll find a more suitable guy and yadayadaya". Who knows, you may have already DUMPED this guy by the time you read this reply! But what IF this is the guy you plan on being with for the rest of your life' Don't let her win, dammit! Besides, she is JUST a child. Hear me out! I'm not vicitimizing her, just trying to be a bit REALISTIC here. In the end, she is just another bratty, annoying, attentionw0rring child that hasn't got a clue and that's probably pretty messed up inside the head because of the break up of her parents. Believe it or not, I do feel sorry for that child because she did not ask to be in this position in the first place. She did not ask to be born. Yeah I know it sucks, but you could have been off worse. You could have been her. She might hate this as much as you do. Sooo... You have to realize you are the adult and you can make this work- or not. And then you only have yourself to blame. She is going to be there, period. Think of the benefits. You will GAIN respect and love from your boyfriend if you try to be nice to her and try to 'raise' her a little when she's with you. You don't HAVE to procreate if your man likes children, because, hey... He already made that mistake! Come on, you DON'T want this kid to grow up hating you! Believe me, you DON'T need the stress! Be a friend to her. She will get older and that's when things will get a lot easier... OR a lot of worse for you if she remembers you as a total and utter biatsh. Now some last advise... You CAN NOT tell your boyfriend how to discipline HIS child. You CAN try to talk about it. You MUST also make clear she is NOT going to ruin any of your possessions. If you ever move in with your BF, his house is your house and you're not the one that has to put up with the mess- cleaning up after his daughter is HIS job. But that's about the only thing you are entitled to. If you can work this out for yourself, things will be just fine. And one more thing. If you are THAT fed up with it, simply DON'T be there when she comes over. Stay at home. Stay away until you have ACCEPTED HER. I'm serious. It's for the best. http://isitnormal.com/story/22970/#comment-273953 2008-11-18 05:04:27 I bet if you had kids of your own you would think differently about them. I admit I hate my life and I hate just about everyone on the planet. But I could never hate a child. They are the only ones who are truely innocent in this world. I would rather gorge out my eyes than bring harm to a child. Children should be love, cared for and protected from the damned adults of this world who are such @ssholes. I want an end to child abuse and poverty. For all you people who hate kid. Jesus would slap the crap out of you. http://isitnormal.com/story/22970/#comment-266610 2008-09-23 06:35:42 Hey, not everyone likes kids. Thats okay, but I would definatly rethink dating someone with a child. I mean worse case scenario her mom loses custody, or dies unexpectadly. Then she is going to be with daddy full time. http://isitnormal.com/story/22970/#comment-248646 2008-02-08 11:26:58 so what... no one said you have to read it so dont. http://isitnormal.com/story/22970/#comment-248534 2008-02-08 08:08:15 Just leave large pots of boiling water on the edge of the stove, or leave a hot iron where she can touch and dont forget to leave all poisons on the bottom shelf http://isitnormal.com/story/22970/#comment-248333 2008-02-07 20:18:34 little kids are like that !!!!!!! u were the same way when u were little http://isitnormal.com/story/22970/#comment-248209 2008-02-07 17:36:22 the problem is that they have to be beaten at a young age to be taught discipline, when they start crying for something that's when they should get a metal belt to the ass, that will teach them, if you do this every time they cry, you will be able to beat the crying out of them by age 2 and you will never have to hear it again it's for the benefit of the kid mostly, i wish my parents beat me when i cried when i was young don't be pussy, beat your kid http://isitnormal.com/story/22970/#comment-248152 2008-02-07 16:28:57