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23 years old never kissed a girl. IIN?
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I'm 23 and never kissed, held hands or hug any girl. I always follow the same pattern: I like a girl, I realize that she is amazing and she is out of my league, I discover she has a boyfriend and I like her for many months. In fact, my current crush goes back to July (and yes, she has a bf)

Sometimes I think it's ok that the girls I like don't like me back, mostly because I think there are million of guys out there that could make them more happy than me, as I don't have any experience on relationships, flirting and dating.

So, I'm clueless
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I know a guy and gal's situations are different, but maybe this can help? I didn't get my first kiss until I was 26. I'd just watch guys I admire from afar and not speak to them, scared of what would happen if I did. That got me nowhere so I tried approaching dudes and I joined a dating site. I'd approach random dudes(in real life and online) and some of the conversations ended in disaster because I have the social skills of a wet mitten. I learned from those failures and kept going. I guess what I'm trying to say is that you can't wait for someone to come along. It can take a few months, it can take a few years, but you need to go out and make the effort despite being shy and scared.
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You really should branch out and stop focusing on one single girl. 23 is the age of fun and frivolity so stop holding yourself back. If you really want to experience the delights of a long, soft, gentle kiss, then kiss me.
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Kiss you? He'd probably find you hideously ugly. And he's probably not gay. And no one would want all your diseases.
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Well you're not the only one. I never kissed a boy, or has ever been in a real relationship with one. You just need to have confidence, and stop wasting you're time, by liking just one girl. And plus she has a bf? Well even though she has one, then you need to move on and start fresh. There are other fish in the sea.
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Normal nowadays, try not worrying too much (easier said than done, I know). If you don't want to wait for it to somehow happen, get yourself out there and try meeting new people, getting to know them, and maybe eventually something comes out of it. Just sitting there passively, spectating the world around you will probably not get you were you want to be.

It might hypocritical of me to give this advice because I'm clearly ignoring it myself, but it's the most logical thing to do.
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Congrats , you are as queer as a 3 dollar bill.
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It probably is way more normal than you imagine it to be. Judging by the content on this board and other dimilar places and forums on the web, it is obvious there are plenty of people like you out there. I am 24 and in the exact same situation as you. I have realised, since long, the main reason I haven't been kissed or even held a girls hand id because I am pussy and straight girls do not like pussies. ;)

Many guys in our situation have waaaaaaaay too high expectations and standards when it comes to women only desiring girls who are waaaaay out of their league or straight out non-existent outside the world of movies and magasines - Do you think your standars are too high?

Have you ever made an obvious move on the girl(s) that you like? Ever told them you like them or want to hang out?
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If you have crush on any girl, say quickly are you single ? If not then proceed to next girl.
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forget about relationships and work on improving yourself as a person, become successful and happy and then girls will flock to you because they will notice your confidence and personality. the worst thing you can do is compare yourself to other guys as if you have to compete with them!
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Get the fuck off ur ass and get laid then this will stop fuck a milf go on one of those sites that u see on pornhub and once u fell how good pussy is you'll be fuckin every girl in sight even of she does have a bf
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