Strap on Fantasies http://isitnormal.com/story/2302/ The second largest concentration of nerves in the human body is located aroundthe anus, and well it feels good and has nothingto do with sexual preference. It feel great and is a great way to enhance a sexual relationship. You should always keep an open mind and be secure in who you are regardles of your sexuality. Right on Cyndiana http://isitnormal.com/story/2302/#comment-189613 2007-11-05 23:40:48 Never fear! This type of desire is completely normal, and increasing in popularity. The desire to be penetrated by a woman isn't so much as making her a surrogate male, but more about switching gender roles. That might sound like I'm saying the same thing two different ways, but I'm not. The thrill for most men that enjoy strap-on sex with women isn't that they wish it were a man, but more so that it is a woman doing something typically male, allowing them to do something that is typically female. It is the submitting of themselves to the whim of the female that is thrilling, not to mention the sensation. Sometimes, it's just the taboo of being taken by a woman that makes the experience exciting. This is healthy, if not super-healthy. Just the fact you are willing to openly explore this part of yourself means that you are more secure with your sexuality than the larger percentage of men. Have fun with it, take it easy, invest in good lube and enjoy yourself! http://isitnormal.com/story/2302/#comment-106012 2007-05-13 02:27:29 I have had a woman do this to me and it is wonderful. Make sure they go slowly at first. I find it to be even more exciting when I wear womens clothing with stockings and high heels. I think it adds to the feminine effect of being "taken". http://isitnormal.com/story/2302/#comment-104238 2007-05-09 22:56:07 It is normal' Trust me. I'm a man and cringe at the thought of having sex with a man. But a woman taking me with a strap on is the best thing I know. I don't know why, but good to know I'm not alone. http://isitnormal.com/story/2302/#comment-93135 2007-04-21 09:21:08 Guy - it's quite normal. Ignore the narrowminded people who associate the desire for anal play with homosexuality. It's a vicious myth that wanting to be penetrated makes you gay. Anything you do with a woman is straight, by definition. Now, some women buy into the myth, too, so if you have this need, find yourself a woman who likes the idea. My past girlfriends included two women who brought it up first--they really wanted to finger my ass. It became a regular part of our lovemaking. I had other girlfriends who I knew would never understand; in one case I told a woman I should have never told, and she got all uptight about it. My wife, who is a wonderful lover, had to be dissuaded of the myth. But very soon she really got into it--it excites her to finger and even lick my bottom. The penetration itself feels good, because the anus is very sensitive. Also, your prostate gland, which produces part of your semen, is about two inches inside the anus, on the side toward your belly. It feels great to have the prostate stimulated--it can make orgasms extra intense. Also, it can be psychologically gratifying in a powerful way to let a woman inside you, physically. It turns things around, making the woman the penetrator and the man the penetrated, which can be really, really HOT. If being penetrated hurts, you (or your partner) are doing it wrong. First, use LOTS of lubricant. The best is KY Jelly, because gel is better than thin lubricant at reducing friction. Have her take it slow, building up to full penetration and fast in-and-out motion. Fingering is the most intimate act, along with analingus (anus licking). If you're both really into it, you might move on to butt plugs, dildos, and even strap-on dildos. So, find that special woman who will love your butt! Here are some articles to read on the subject: Analingus and Anal Fingering - http://www.sexinfo101.com/pm_analplay.shtml Sacred Spot Massage - http://www.whitelotuseast.com/SacredSpotMassage.htm Prostate Stimulation: The Whys and Hows - http://www.vibereview.com/browse/page/Prostate Stimulation: The Whys and Hows The Prostate Gland - http://www.good-sex-positions.com/prostate.html A Fun Story called "Adventures with my Angel" - http://www.literotica.com/stories/showstory.php'id=27834 http://isitnormal.com/story/2302/#comment-90432 2007-04-17 17:49:38 Go for it, bro. F*&K what other people think. It's an incredible sensation. Start small as to not damage your lining... there's chicks out there who will do it.. put an ad on Craig's list. I was 19 when I did it, did NOT think it was my thing but after about 2 minutes it's NICE. http://isitnormal.com/story/2302/#comment-83523 2007-04-05 02:17:28 I have been pegged twice, but it is not easy to know whether a girl is into it or not and ask her..... http://isitnormal.com/story/2302/#comment-25393 2006-08-01 08:15:26 Have you ever done a guy with a strap on before' I absolutely love it http://isitnormal.com/story/2302/#comment-24836 2006-07-26 12:34:51 I'm 18 and I loved being penetrated by my x girlfriend, its alot of fun if you know what your doing its quite pleasurable http://isitnormal.com/story/2302/#comment-24834 2006-07-26 12:31:35 well my girlfriend has done it to me, she bended so she could suck me at the same time it kind of hurt at first but felt good after http://isitnormal.com/story/2302/#comment-21791 2006-06-28 15:04:42 It's absolutely normal. You can read stories about our strapon family sex - I'm not guy and we are very happy family :) http://isitnormal.com/story/2302/#comment-19749 2006-06-02 04:26:28 Actually, as a girl who has always wanted to do a guy from behind with a strapon, I have to say that this is actually pretty hot. Guys get a lot of pleasure out of anal because it massages the prostate. Basically, like a male G-spot. There's nothing wrong or gay about having an interest in it. Hopefully you'll find a chick openminded or experimental enough to take you up on that. P.S. Ever wanna know why they call it a "strapon"' Spell it backwards. :D http://isitnormal.com/story/2302/#comment-19689 2006-06-01 04:28:07 It doesn't have anything to do with being gay. It probably just means that you're submissive and you want a girlfriend to dominate you. Check alt.com. http://isitnormal.com/story/2302/#comment-19329 2006-05-27 01:00:00 Actually I've had the same thing and I also have no gay feelings. It has been shown though that like it or not the anus is part of the sexual system and that most men and women can enjoy this kind of stimulation. Theres nothing wrong with this fantasy really, its just a combination of the stimulation and wanting to have your girl on you doing it. http://isitnormal.com/story/2302/#comment-19160 2006-05-24 13:56:34 man the thing is this u got to do what makes u happy .I my self had no idea how to bring this subject up with my lady friends when I did they all reacted the way Id wanted and to there surprise they found that it is enjoyabol to them also dont wate to long to ask u might regret that .I know I do and wish Id have doen it at your age . I've found that most of the wemon ive presented the idea to thought it a good one and many of them expresed that it had ben a fantise of theres also. Wat ever you deside good luck. http://isitnormal.com/story/2302/#comment-18964 2006-05-21 16:46:55 Don't worry I know im not gay but sometimes i kinda wanna screw my best freind(a guy)(ew I know) in the asshole http://isitnormal.com/story/2302/#comment-18801 2006-05-19 07:32:53 yo i think that would be fun but dont mind me no one does http://isitnormal.com/story/2302/#comment-18648 2006-05-17 15:56:26 My wife and I have tried it several times and really enjoyed it, we still do. First the physical prostate stimulation is amazing, but you should take that slow and get used to it since it is very intense. It's also very powerful psychologically since she loves to be the one stimulating me and it's very intense to be open and receiving for a man. And no, it's not gay, while it is different and powerful for a man to be penetrated, as long as it's a woman doing it it isn't gay, I certainly do not think about men when we've done it. It's also not about bondage and domination unless you want it to be, we aren't into that so there is no tying down or calling names involved, essentially for us it's the same as regular sex with a role reversal. I agree with advice start small and use lots of lube, maybe with a bend over beginner kit you can buy from places like blowfish or good vibrations on the internet. I'd also find someone you are reasonably open and honest with since it's a very powerful experience. But I'm afraid a lot of women won't be interested in this. But it's increasingly common and in the open and talked about, and more and more porn videos are being produced with this theme. Take it slow and enjoy. http://groups.yahoo.com/group/gentlestraponlove/ http://www.take-it-like-a-man.com/ http://isitnormal.com/story/2302/#comment-18051 2006-05-11 09:58:10 Yes, it's normal, and there are females who want to do that. Liking anal doesn't make you gay or bi; some gay and bisexual males care nothing for anal sex, wheras some straight couples love it. So, it's just another spot to get some good feeling out of. http://isitnormal.com/story/2302/#comment-17948 2006-05-10 09:34:37 I have taken it up the ass from a female friend with a small strap on and found it quite enjoyable. Yeah it hurt in the beginning but as long as she's gentle there should be no problems. Use plenty of lube tho. Good luck... ;) http://isitnormal.com/story/2302/#comment-17829 2006-05-09 19:00:06 Anal stimulation can actually be quite nice, if done right. http://isitnormal.com/story/2302/#comment-17700 2006-05-09 04:29:50 I'm a 23 year old straight guy, and I've had very similar thoughts as the ones you're describing. I don't know that I could ever bring myself to act on these thoughts (simply because it sounds nice in theory, but I'm not sure I would like it in actuality), but I admit the idea intrigues me. As other people have indicated, this doesn't mean that I'm the least bit homosexual. The thought of being pegged by a guy does not appeal to me at all. But it sounds like you understand all that. In any case, I don't know if we're "mainstream," but I think there are plenty of people around who feel the same way. http://isitnormal.com/story/2302/#comment-17610 2006-05-09 01:00:25 Thank you for reassuring me intelligent and reasonable people exist. And to the initial question, what this person said. http://isitnormal.com/story/2302/#comment-17166 2006-05-07 21:46:00 Some girls like to be pegged. Some guys like to be pegged. Some guys like to peg girls & some guys like to peg guys. Some girls like to peg girls or guys. Some people have no interest in such a thing whatsoever. It's personal preference. If you want it, it has nothing to do with your sexual orientation. I'm a lady, & I love pegging my straight boyfriend. http://isitnormal.com/story/2302/#comment-17158 2006-05-07 21:31:25 "Gay" doesn't mean "enjoys anal sex", or vice versa. http://isitnormal.com/story/2302/#comment-16982 2006-05-07 13:12:49 Sidenote: a wikipedia search on "pegging" should provide you with more info and resources. http://isitnormal.com/story/2302/#comment-16854 2006-05-07 05:47:44 Sadly, flamers and trolls are par for this site. Try not to sweat them. Your fantasy is common enough to have its own name: pegging. There are definitely women who are into it. I can't tell you how to spot them, but if you're with someone you can trust you should be able to tell her your fantasies. If she's open minded the idea might intrigue her. If she'll only get busy in missionary position while partially clothed and with all the lights off you might want to keep your secrets, though. Is it "normal"' I don't think that matters. We're talking about consenting adult behavior that shouldn't result in permanent damage, so go for it! Don't worry about what the neighbors would think...I guarantee you you've got at least one or two sets of neighbors with some funky sex toys in the back of their own closets. As for the actual act, I've always heard this advice: "Start small and use lube...LOTS of lube." http://isitnormal.com/story/2302/#comment-16840 2006-05-07 05:29:00 Haha, nobody said anything negative dude. Your fantasy doesn't make you queer. You won't know what to expect from partners. Sounds like fun. Don't sweat it. http://isitnormal.com/story/2302/#comment-16199 2006-04-30 23:55:48 I said NOTHING DEROGATORY! Can't you guys read' http://isitnormal.com/story/2302/#comment-16026 2006-04-26 22:17:14 Pretty brokeback dude... http://isitnormal.com/story/2302/#comment-15990 2006-04-26 12:46:48 everyone is different...im a teen but even i fell the same way sometimes...but all i can say is find a girl with a strap-on... i i havent really givin a reall responce so ya i guess its kinda normal http://isitnormal.com/story/2302/#comment-15929 2006-04-24 01:39:18 The only think I can think of saying is.. TAKING IT FROM BEHIND HURTS LIKE FUCKIN HELL!!! http://isitnormal.com/story/2302/#comment-15873 2006-04-22 17:30:39 Ouchies! http://isitnormal.com/story/2302/#comment-15863 2006-04-22 08:30:07 well everyone has some kind of outragus fantisy http://isitnormal.com/story/2302/#comment-15854 2006-04-21 23:45:05