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okay my gf and i live with her sister and her sister's so called guy "friend". but that isn't the problem... whenever i leave and come back her sister's guy "friend" is always talking to my gf... and i always hear that they talk in the middle of the night when i'm asleep... i trust her and all, but i sometimes get these feelings like they are up to something... and i tried saying something to her, cuz she lets him hug her and lay down with her when i'm not there... and i got mad and told her that that wasn't right, and she got mad at me and told me that he was there when i wasn't... i honestly think that that is some bullsh*t... but what can i do??? and today in the morning, before i took her to school i went in her room and i tried opening the door and she was behind there and her sister's friend jumped on the bed and acted like he was asleep... the thing that keeps me saying that nothing is happening is cuz she is 17 and he is like 38... and he isn't attractive at all...
Do you think it's normal?
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maxwelhouser (13368)
2008-02-13 08:26:20
yea i am im shaging her rite know
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maxwelhouser (13368)
2008-02-13 08:35:08
nice gerge ur gay u and bill clinton are lovers
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gizzie56 (8681)
2008-02-13 08:36:22
She lets him "hug her and lay down with her when I'm not there". Guy how stupid can you be? This guy is slapping the meat to your girlfriend.
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~skonka~ (5405)
2008-02-13 08:38:21
@: gizzie56
but this guy is old and ugly as f*ck... this is the poster..
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gizzie56 (8681)
2008-02-13 08:47:05
@: ~skonka~
Well, I with you on this I don't get why she would let this guy get close to her at all. Sometimes looks aren't everything.

There always is the possibility that this is totally Innocent. Make sure you have proof before you start making accusations,because you could lose your girlfriend over this.

It sounds like they are being sneaky which is why I suspect they are up to something. I suggest you go off to work as normal take the day off and come back and do some window peeping,but be warned you might not like what you see.
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Orochimaru (9975)
2008-02-13 08:52:57
Fuck em both...
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~skonka~ (5405)
2008-02-13 08:56:06
@: gizzie56
well i have trusted her for a long time and she has never done anything to make me lose her trust... thats why i think nothing is happening...
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gizzie56 (8681)
2008-02-13 09:02:10
@: ~skonka~
Trust is the most important thing in a relationship IMAO so if you have that and good communication you should have a long healthy relationship.

Why don't you just ask her why she lets this ugly creep twice her age get close to her the way he does . It seems very abnormal to me.
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~skonka~ (5405)
2008-02-13 09:07:05
@: gizzie56
I DO ASK HER... I'VE ASKED HER LIKE TWICE, BUT SHE JUST GETS MAD AT ME AND TELLS ME THAT HE WAS THERE WHEN I WASN'T... CUZ I BROKE UP WITH HER FOR A WHILE, CUZ SHE WAS GETTING TOO BOSSY... BUT SHE STOPPED BEING BOSSY AND NOW THIS THINKS THAT SHE COULD ALWAYS PLAY THIS CARD WHEN I GET MAD AT HER WHEN THEY GET CLOSE LIKE THAT...
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gizzie56 (8681)
2008-02-13 09:15:38
@: ~skonka~
Oh I see he must have been a shoulder to cry on when you guys broke up. He must have helped her deal with the hurt she was experiencing. I would imagine they developed a friendship during this time, and she wants to keep it like this in case she needs a shoulder to cry on once again.

My final suggestion to you is to get your money saved up and rent your own place and get this person out of the picture in a direct manner.

Whats up with the upper case letters am I making you mad. If so I'm sorry ,just trying to help.
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~skonka~ (5405)
2008-02-13 09:30:26
@: gizzie56
no... just had cap locks on... sorry
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October (10003)
2008-02-13 09:34:14
@poster

You're a sucker.

Your a HUGE sucker.

I can hear the slurping going on from here.

You couldn't be a bigger sucker if you were to
wrap celophane around your head and shove a pipe cleaner up your butt.

She will let him hold her and lay with him when you're not around?

Uhm, wake up.

Tobra
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WarLord (13444)
2008-02-13 09:44:58
Fuck him up.
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nearly (10533)
2008-02-13 10:05:22
@: ~skonka~
To be honest, I think you are just there for 'convenience' whilst he has his wicked way with her. You being in the picture legitamises his situation with her. If she gets mad at you when you bring it up, that in itself MUST tell you something! She gets mad because she knows you will back off and she has a guilty conscience.

He'll not be the first guy nor the last, to get into a females knickers by 'being there when you weren't'.

Believe me, gizzies idea of a day off and window peeping sounds about right to me. She will not discuss it so you need to find out the other way. Personally, I'd arrange a day off and not tell her about it. Leave as if going to work/school normally. Go spend an hour window shoping and THEN go see what happening. Maybe cut the hour to 1/2 hour. You decide, just give them time to do whatever they do!

Good luck by the way.
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