You're way to young to be thinking about getting married especially if you don't know if you love the guy or not! Don't go cheating on your boyfriend, if you want to be with another guy, break up the your boyfriend first!, then go and play the field. And please leave that old man (24 yr.old) alone. You should be dating guys closer to your own age.

I don't think 24 would be an old man. Also my boyfriend was talkin about when we're older.

If you have sex with that 24 yr. old, he could be charged with having sex with a minor (you!).

About being immature? You really want to call chasing your whims and looking for self-gratification in dangerous situations mature?

Sure, here's a great plan. Sleep around all you can, get all kinds of sexual diseases, get pregnant, maybe have a kid or have an abortion, and then wonder when you're 25 why there isn't a man around who wants to settle down with you. Oh, and make sure to put all the blame on them. Call them immature because they fear commitment. This is a very familiar story.

No I say he's too immature for me. As in his mine hasn't matured a lot so therefore he can't handle bad situations well enough for me. He also threatens to hurt himself if something bad happens. I'm not saying it because he fears commitment but he has to be able to handle problems maturely, which he can't. He wants to be with me till we die but I can't be with him if he's like that.

you need to be honest to that 16year old guy.
Thinking those things is not a crime you know.

If he's to immature for you, then by all means go ahead and break up with him. Find someone new and more mature, but not that 24 yr old!

oh hun i've been there before. don't cheat on the boy. it may seem simple at first, but it gets extremely complicated and difficult the longer it goes on. if you're thinking of cheating on the guy you clearly don't really want to be with him, so just break up. it might sound harsh, but it's a lot less harsh than him finding out you've been cheating. as for fucking the 24 year old, go for it, just be safe. and please tell me he's hot.

1. You're 15. Don't worry about a sexual relationship right now. That's still very young to be having sex.
2. Don't cheat. If you aren't interested in your boyfriend, break up with him and date casually.
3. Know that if you have sex with the 24 year old, he's committing statutory rape, even if you consent to it.
4. Of course your boyfriend is immature at 16, males mature slower than girls. Every high school girl goes through this.

You replied to me saying that I was wrong about your sixteen year old boyfriend, you gave me new resons for thinking that he was immature. I agree with you based on what you said. He is immature, and as stupid as he is acting I think you should break up with him. That would be the honest thing to do. Never cheat on anyone it shows disrespect for them and disrespect for yourself.

But having sex with a 24 year old is also a very stupid thing to do. It is dangerous for him as well as for you. And sleeping with guys just to try to build up experience points or something will probably end up hurting your chance for a good marriage or other long-term relationship in the future.

Your mind also has not matured. Your brain has a lot of growing to do. I would suggest that instead of looking to older men (who know more than you do, can control themselves better, and may know ways of manipulating you, using you or hurting you that you have never thought of,) to look for a more mature guy your own age, (15, 16 or 17) but as immature and immoral as you seem to be I don't think you would be any good for you. Basically men of any age would be a lot better off without you until you mature a little and learn how to treat people with respect.

Like others have said, you're still growing mind and body. Stick with the kid your own age - he sounds like a nice guy. In a couple of years it'll make more sense. I'm 24, and trust me, if you're this old and you want to fool around with someone your age, you aren't any big prize. This older guy's a schmuck.

go with the 24 year old, he'll do you right, teach you a thing or two

i see what you mean by you wanting to have sex with more than 1 person before you get married an stuff
but i dont think you will be gettin married for a while yet as your only 15
and do not cheat
just enjoy being with him for now
an things could alllll change between you and your boyfriend

yeah, im 16 and I have a boyfriend too who wants to get married after high school, but the main reason that i dont want to get married is because i want to go to college and continue studying, and my parents dont even know im dating.... but anyways... I think that if your feelings are not even strong enough to be faithful to your boyfriend, honestly, maybe he shouldnt develop an imaginary dream for himself where he marries you, that would totally ruin you and your experimentaion and his happinness, i suggest you break up with him.
and dont do anything with that 24 year old guy

I hate you. Why can't you people just post one-liners? Interesting side note, been on for ten minutes, haven't said anything but "no".

her probly wants to cheat on you with a 24 yr old women dosn't mean his going to do it thow.