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Not ready for a relationship?!?

I have recently asked a guy out who I've been hanging out with for the last couple of months. I live at school and both he and I live in the same rez building. We would hang out at least 5 + hours everyday and he'd come get me for classes and dinner etc. so I assumed he liked me. When I asked him out he told me that he wasn't stupid and knew what was going on between us.He also said he wasn't ready for a relationship becuase he had a recent breakup with a girl and that it wasn't that he didn't like me. I was wondering if this "Iam not ready for a relationship" has another meaning of, I just don't like you. The confusing part of this is after he rejected me, he hasn't changed his flirty behaviour and actually goes out of his way to spend more time with me. Iam confused and wondering whether I should move on or stick around ( at least for a little while).
Do you think it's normal?
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cabinet70 (4440)
2008-02-15 01:41:15
It is obvious hes being truthfull to you and likes you but is not ready for a relationship. He might be later if you still are but dont put your life on hold waiting for him just enjoy your time together and if you want just have casual sex with him
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flikr (10636)
2008-02-15 02:22:14
he's probably buying into all that abstinence bullshit
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maxwelhouser (13368)
2008-02-15 07:52:18
lmao
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maxwelhouser (13368)
2008-02-15 07:52:45
@: flikr
i agree
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violent10dency (10988)
2008-02-15 10:15:44
see I'm kind of in the same predicament here, and to be honest with you it has made the situation way more complicated just because i let him know I had feelings for him. What I'm going to do now is tell him to stop flirting with me, and stop grabbing my ass & boobs and stuff if he doesn't want to go out with me. I guess that's easier said than done though. I would stop hanging out with that guy so much too that will drive him wild. He may also be hanging out with you, because he just doesn't want to be alone, i don't really know, just TALK TO HIM ABOUT IT.
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