I have an 11 year old daughter,and she ran to me and showed me her underwear's,which had this clear gooey wet stuff on it.I really do not know what it is i was thinking about taking her to her nurse but i don't know if the problem is the serious.Can it be from nasty intercourses cause I caught her naked rubbing her pussy up and down on the pillow like she was having sex,I did not beat her i had a little talk.She already had her period is that any kind of sign or something.
SOME ONE JUST PLEASE HELP ME!!!
tell her step daddy to lay off now , cause she can get pregant
Give her something to do, she's obviously bored.
for starters its completely natural to masturbate at this age completely! it absolutely normal you should not scold this child or make her feel guilty for doing those kind of things it will just result in shame and guilt it could potentially have long term or permanent affects on her sex life in adulthood.
If you have made her feel shame about what she is doing now she will never be able to come to you for advice when she is actually does start to have sex she will be too embarrassed. if she cant come to her mother/father for good advice she is likely to listen to her inexperienced uneducated teenage friends which could result in your daughter putting herself at risk.
its good you had a chat but i think you need to leave it at that, if you accidentally catch her again walk away and pretend you didnt i think this is a personal and private time that your daughter is entitled to and you neednt bring the topic up again unless she does its not fare for her to feel embarrassed or ashamed of a perfectly normal part of growing up.
clear goo in underwear.. well again im kinda curious as to why an adult male or female would have troubles in identifing what this is. It sounds like its as a result of her "self exploration" im sure you know what i mean but i m having a hard time trying to find the right words when speakings of an 11 year old she is just a baby but if it is that then good thats normal, also clear goo is common it can come at any time for no apparent reason you daughter is in puberty her body changes. i highly doubt it is anything to worry about and i really hope your baby isnt having sex i doubt that what was in her undies was anything other than something she naturally produced herself. rule of thumb for discharge is if it is odourless and it doesnt appear to be a greeny shade than should be normal.
if your worried about your daughter having sex than maybe you need to step up to the parenthood plate and take better care and more interest in your child, if i thought for one second that my 11 year old was haveing sex she wouldnt be let out of my sight until i resolved the situation you need to talk with you daughter in a positive way and about the value in waiting until she is older empower her as a woman and expose her to the cold hard truth if you dont start to teach her to respect herself now she never will..
if you genuinely think she is having sex or is too sexually advanced for her age than you need to think long and hard as to weather somebody may be sexually abusing her. think about who is around your daughter, where you let your daughter go what you let her do and protect her from risky situations.
i kinda do and i kinda dont hope this question was fake .. i dont obviously cause i just wasted a f**k load of time writing this reply because i feel strongly about this topic BUT i really do wish it was fake because it troubles me that a parent who was truely concerned with their babies sexual health would name your post " what is up with that pussy " .. thats a foul way to speak very tasteless and ugly she is a baby and it really worries me if your a man that she doesnt have any inteligent woman to speak to about what she is going through and even worse if you are a woman that you have no f**kin idea about basic womanly facts..
take her to the doctor it wont hurt sounds as though you dont have alot of wisdom to share with your daughter about puberty and sexual health.. its only fare she gets the opportunity to speak with somebody who can offer her conrect and extremely important advice. sounds like you may need to call in a doctor for that one.
dats one of to things
male semen
or pussy juice
if she has been rubbing her self up with her panties on than its just her juices
and younger girls juice is stickier than older women are for some reason.
i have been having sec since i was 13 and and now 19 the juice is deffinately different between the age groups..
also disturbing is the fact that this person suspects the 11 year old of having "nasty intercourse" because the girl is "rubbing her pussy" on a pillow. What kind of toothless deliverance banjo playing hairlipped redneck do you have to be to think like this?
that's discharge. she's fine
I'm talkingabout the guy who wants to lick the stuff off her pussy if she was four years older. The nineteen year old
I think you misread what he was saying.
Cause like don't think about taking her to a nurse.
Do it, or sit her down.
And have the ''talk'' with her..
but dude, don't write about it..
Your young daughter's vagina is developing and will discharge a clearish or whitish creamy fluid as this is nature's way of keeping harmful bacteria at bay.
Whatever you do, do not frighten or worry your daughter. She is already having to contend with puberty and her periods as well as her growing sexuality.
Just tell her not to wory but if it persists in a painful or uncomfortable way, then see a doctor with her.
There is just one thing, as she has started to masturbate ask her if she has ever inserted anything in her vagina and not been able to recover it. Sometimes little girls push things into their vaginas out of curiosity and they get stuck up there and cause a discharge.
As to her masturbation, it's OK. Sooner this than trying intercourse.
either the childs mother is not around anymore and you are ignorant to this stuff or you are a sick pedo.. wtf would you call ur daughters vagina a pussy...thats normally what guys refer to hookers or their f**k buddies vaginas.. not someone you care a about!! its filthy and insensitive. and if you were "like that" you would definantly know all these things. maybe you've f**ked her and ur afraid someone else has taken "ur treasure"!! if you are not really a pedo...im sorry for talkin to you this way...but you really should choose your wordin ALOT better..
Perfectly normal - even if this "story" isn't.
Either you can tell her it is bad and take her to a doctor, making her feel ashamed of her sexuality for life making her find a abusive husband and never live a normal life. This will of course also increase the chance she rebels years later and start banging bikers at her 15`s just to annoy her square dad.
(poor girl, Aka the Christian way)
OR
You can let her do her stuff just kindly let her know that she should not do it when there are people around and simply let her live with her sexuality as you would with yours. She will grow up to be confident of her sexuality and find out for herself what kind of person she is and what she will accept from "guests" once she grows up.
Good luck with whatever you did.
Light her on fire.