After a hard day at work ask him to shower with you, and let him wash your coochie good. Maybe he'll eat you then.

I'd ony ever lick a mint girl out, so if you'r a dike u may not have a prayer. harsh but true.

What's a mint girl?

My advice is to trade favors. Offer him a 69 or go down on him if he will go down on you. This occurs to me because my girlfriend never thinks to give me a blowjob anymore, while I go down on her every time we have sex. I'm thinking of denying her my tounge.

Or you might try the intellectual approach, you may be able to persuade him that there are no more germs in your pussy than in your mouth and surely he kisses you.
Is it normal? Well it isn't common, from what I see for a man to refuse cunnilingus, and particularly not on the grounds that its dirty, but there are a lot of men out there that are like that.

A vagina is a self-cleaning organ, tell him that!

u should dump his loser ass and find someone who will go down on u cause in my opinion oral sex is better than intercourse

I once had a bf that I thought I liked who was too shy to go down on me, but after a while I had to move on. There are lots of guys out there who go down regularly, so if you look you can find them. My current bf doesn't miss a day, - not even when I am ovulating (these guys are hard to find, but when you do keep them close by!) so I definetly relate to you and to the girls in your office.

If this guy's never gone down on a girl before he might be afraid to do it for the first time. Perhaps he's done it before but wasn't very good at it. Either way it's possible he's using this cleanliness thing as a smokescreen for his real fears.

It's wrong to pressure someone into sexual acts they aren't comfortable with, but if this is important to you you should try to discuss it with him now and then.

If I could talk to him directly, guy to guy, I'd say this: it's a competitive world out there, and guys who won't go down on women will always be at a disadvantage to guys who will!

The last post is probably right. I gave up a real great girlfriend to a guy who was willing to just eat, eat and eat. Even while we were going together, she used to get head from guys when I was out working.

She used to tell me that the other guys meant nothing to her, but that she had this insatiable desire to orgasm and that tongues were better "tools" than my dick. Is wasn't that I wasn't a willing partner- it was just that I not always able to be there when she had her "desires".

My gf was probably the best looking girl in the town so it was easy for her to talk anyone into giving her head.

I vowed never to lose a girl again over giving head.

it is better to have a girl that gives BJ's than a whore who only cares about her own satisfaction.

Consider yourself lucky.

Just because girls enjoy getting oral sex doesn't make them whores.

You are just a lame excuse for a guy. I bet you only can find ugly girls to hook up.

All girls who like being serviced over equality in sex are fucking whores. I just dumped a girl whom I met at a party because of how adamant she was in expecting oral sex from me as soon as I showed interest in her. Bitch...

He is obviously not aware of the beautiful scent of pussy. Try teasing him with a pair of musty panties first. He is sure to be aroused by that. Get them a little dirtier each time. Eventually he will want to rape you when you get home

poor girl...ask him...if he says no then TELL HIM!!!

He is a complete and utter selfish wanker. Get rid of the fucking idiot what self respecting man doesnt like to eat pussy and you should show him this reply.

How can any self respecting girl go out with a guy that doesn't eat pussy? There are so many guys that you can have eat you if you just look outside this relationship. I bet you can find a good tongue if you simply hung out more with those girls in your office and found out what guys they are tiring of.

awe shut up. U girls think the world owes u.
I hope u find a guy that reems you till it hurts.

I am sick and tired of hearing ppl wine and cry about what their boy or girlfriend doesnt do in bed... what is it with you ppl???? I mean if that is the reason for someone to break up with his partner, then it wasnt even a good relationship anyway!!! When you love and respect the other person, you will NOT force or beg him or her again and again to do this or that, which he or she is uncomfortable with doing. I am sick and tired of ppl being so selfish all the time in the relationship and then bitch about that the other person is soooooo horrible because he or she doesnt do this or that!!!! Just get over yourselves and grow up! No, you cant have everything! Yes, a good sexlife IS important in a relationship, but does a good sexlife mean you have to get everything you want??? Damn, I am sick of these kind of ppl ... want, want, want, me, me, me..... .... when they cant get something they want... they start acting like little spoiled rotten kids! Grow up!!!!!!

--^ That goes for guys also. Isn't it ironic that guys piss and moan when some girls, not all girls, exhibit a liking for control - when society has "okayed" the manliness of guys who command blowjobs from girls and dump them if they don't give.

So what if there are some girls who also like getting oral. In some social circles , girls who enjoy receiving cunnilingus are simply enjoying their right sign femininity! Girls can just as easily dump guys who don't allow them to feel as feminine as they might with a different guy!

Hear hear dinamo.....

There is nothing more sexy than having your boyfriend eating you. I might be secretly considered one of those control girls you mention, being lucky enough to have a bf that loves pleasing me.

I certainly am not going around giving bj to guys- never have and never will.

You probably have too much pussy odor "PO". Usually PO smells like a dead fish. Hard to get guys to go down on you with PO. Try douching more.

Other girls don't seem to have your problem.
They say they have guys eating them all the time. They probably control PO better than you.