Yeah, I think that's probably the best thing for you to do. Hell, why not cut it down to age 35?

Don't forget, that movie had a happy ending.

Lots of people wait until they're older to have sex, it's not unusual. I'm sure there's a-holes out there who get off on cracking jokes at your expense, but thet's what a-holes do. The bigger you make the problem in your mind, the bigger it's going to be. Meet girls without planning to have sex with them, plan not to have sex with them. Let it happen in it's own time. And I'll gaurntee you that most girls are exited about having sex with a virgin, it reminds them of high school or something.

That was like the easiest joke you could make. Why even bother.

yeah, id still go with the self killing. best option for sure. or a hooker. eithers good

Hookers aren't that expensive. Shit, just buy a fat chick dinner and she'll fuck ya. Just forget about standards, and you'll be fine. Don't kill yourself because you're pathetic.

Keep in mind it always can be worse. You could have had sex by now but have a painful and nasty disease that you... well, I could go into more detail but I'm sure you can imagine how bad it *could* be. And in some cases (mostly outside of marriage), sex is definatly overrated.

I'm the only one who will EVER tell you this, but...
Being a virgin isn't a bad thing!

Man this is easy to pass go out and buy ya self a hooker tada

im sure if you "really" wanted to have sex you would have by now. trust me its really not hard to get layed!!!!!!!

Hahahahha

It still counts if you pay for it, it's not too late!

I know a 31 year old virgin, so you're definitely not alone.

You don't deserve the nice things you have. Not everyone is like you, you ass.

It's completely normal. Ever notice how people who have lots of promiscuous sex end up getting divorced, dying alone, catching STDs at orgies, listening to Tom Leykis, etc.? They are very sad and empty inside, never having realized early that quality is better than quantity. "The 40 Year Old Virgin" was obvioulsy written by someone who wishes they could take theirs back. You've got two options: You can find your soulmate(another virgin) and experience true, eternal love, or you can keep up a decent porn collection and take it with you to the grave. Both are better than skanking yourself out.

hooker... just keeping it oiut there. or a fat chick. its like a free hooker!

I'm not sure if I should be saying this but I will.

I'm a straight female and I much prefer fucking virgins over guys who have been around the block. I mean, if you've been with more than 5 people it's just dirty. Yes, I'm talking to you men, men can be whores too.

So, around some circles, you are a rare and delightful treat. Don't be too sad about it.

It's time to lower your standards. Stop considering things like "Healthy" or "Gender"

if you have the funds for monthly internet access, stop paying and get a hooker. I am sure that you can find a suck for a buck lady in your neighborhood, so go out there and git-r-done. If that fails, then kill yourself, i recommend exanguination via castration, or if female, rectal trauma.

Do you have room for a sheep in your home? Nevermind......your way sounds best.

Haha you're in your 30s and are still a virgin. I laugh at you.

Ever considered prostitution. Selling rather thn buying, of course ;P

So....pure eternal love is between two virgins only...hmmm. My fiancee had sex with one guy before me and we have a very nice love.

Dude, I didn't lose it until I was 20.. You STILL get made fun of for that, but oh well, it happened with someone who cared about me and vice versa

The only people who care are either just kidding or not worth knowing. Not exactly normal but not a big deal either. Honestly love is waaaay more important than sex.

PS Someone said if a man has slept with more than 5 people they are a slut. Total BS!

Looks like either way (lots of partners vs none) you'll always find someone to disaprove of your lifestyle.

They laugh at the movie because the movie is a comedy. Anything can be funny in a movie like that. Keep your chin up.

It is a problem. You should not kill yourself though. At 40 you should resign from the world and retire to some monastery somewhere and declare yourself a complete sexual failure in life. No, really.

Also I don't think you should wait 'til you are 40 to give up. Either go to a monastery now, or buy hookers now. One or the other. If the problem is so oppressive that it weighs on your mind, stop sitting on your ass and waiting for the situation to resolve itself, you coward.

Look up the story "Worth the Wait" in the sex category. it may help or give you some type of encouragement and support.

I'm 33, and I'm still a virgin (for religious reasons)...however your circumstances may be, I want for you what I want for myself--to find a caring, fine woman who will make you forget you ever thought about killing yourself, for that matter...And besides, the movie was so funny...but check this, the guy actually gained respect from his peers AND got hitched at the end...stay strong

Dear 32 year old virgin,

I would like to congragulate you for keeping your virginity. I am a 21 year old female, who lost my virginity when I was 16 and married a slut guy of a husband. And from those experiences, let me tell you, I'd give up my husband any day of the week to marry a virgin instead. I am not joking. It is very hurtful when my husband comments on his past relationship with his ex's. Being with a virgin husband would be heaven. I never realized virginity was so important until after I was already married. The bible has it right, wait till you get married. Believe me, it's worth it. Don't you dare think about killing yourself, you aren't pathetic at ALL. You are special, staying a virgin for this long, means that you are sincere in finding true love. Believe me, finding someone to have sex with is the easiest thing in the world. Finding someone to have a true relationship is a million times harder. Your taking the harder road, instead of giving in to the easy road. I commend you for it. Don't give up!!! Don't you DARE go out there and find some stupid hooker to lose your virginity too. Be someone who actually thinks that sex is special instead of something to do for fun, like watching a movie. Society these days are like that, they don't give a shit about the meaning of sex. Don't give in and be one of those people. And by the way, sex is waaay over-rated. Believe me, it's not something so grand and great that you need to worry about it. Love, is something that is grand and great. NOT sex. Well, I hope this helps you feel better, because you shouldn't feel bad at all, I wish I was still a virgin.

Do you want to know how many people esp men who are virgins who are in their 30s and 40s. Thousands! more than you think!

Of course you are not too happy about the situation so if you think there might be anything you can do to help yourself. For example getting fitter then joining a gym is a good idea or if it is self confidence or education then night classes are a good idea also.

What makes a man a real man? its not sex with numerous amounts of women. How many deadbeat fathers are in this world. Being a man is about taking responsibility and treating people with respect. You have shown this by not going with a hooker or by having a one night stand with a 'fat chick' or someone who might be mentally vunerable.

You have shown yourself to be a man on all accounts by saving yourself for someone who you deem is right. Good on ya and please please don't kill youself because tommorow is coming and it only takes one day to change your life

Why dont you just pick up some chick and fuck her brains out?
That sure beats suicide.

Whats the problem?

Its really not that hard to get laid. Just get out there. Or rape someone. Or fuck your dog.

You do not say weather you are a man or a woman. Still you should be congratulated.
You sexuality is YOUR business. Having sexual intercourse is not like two dogs in the street.
Sexual relations must have love and kindness attached...otherwise we are no better than animals.
Do not feel like an oddball. Sex is personal and should be kept that way. Be proud of yourself. I am happy for you.
Alfred Kuchinski

If you are a woman you definitely need help I have something that will fix your problem

Or you could just pay for it.

go for fourty one kick steve carrel's ass

haha

HOW bout you pay me to kill you that way you die and i get money :)

I'm a 35 year-old virgin myself and I'm an Atheist. You don't have to feel any pressure to %u201Cloose%u201D it so that %u201Clittle kids%u201D won't pick on you. That's childish. The fact is that everyone has their own beliefs, standards and desires in life. Don't try to conform to other people's standards or way of life. That road will just lead you to sorrow and perhaps a feeling of betrayal to yourself. And many people will %u201Claugh%u201D at you for this just because they are compensating for an insecurity within themselves because they think it makes them in some way %u201Cbetter than%u201D you. As long as you believe in yourself and understand why you are in your situation...then you are OK.

The reasons for virginity are not always that cut and dry. Some people aren't just simply aroused to the point of action that easily. Some people will drop their pants at the first opportunity. And there are Great men may have been virgins for their lives. Sir Isaac Newton supposedly never had any sexual relations and was thought to be even secretly gay during his time. Well...what do you know...he was dedicated to working out the foundations of math and science that transformed the world...and without those theories...what we are typing into would not even exist!!!

My story...
As being an Atheist, you can guess that virginity is not an act of %u201Cpurity%u201D or anything like that. It's just that I haven't found anyone to share those feelings with, despite scattered dates and even %u201Cphysically attractive%u201D women wanting to date me. If I was going to engage in a loving relationship, I would want it to have a potential to last. Short term relationships aren't for me because I don't want to waste my time, or even risk STD's with someone who's %u201Cinto%u201D casual sex. As for dating for %u201Cfun%u201D while I know that it will not lead anywhere...well to me that's WRONG to my partner. I won't subject someone to be a %u201Ctemporary%u201D placeholder to make me %u201Clike my friends%u201D. I'm much stronger and more moral than that. Because I was born with characteristics that I believe give me a chance to make a great contribution to humanity...I have chosen to accept only a relationship that will contribute to these life goals. Even being single to life is an acceptable option to me (if I never meet anyone) because to me that's worth the struggle. I know this would be considered a bit extreme to some in this day and age...but I guess that's part of the reason *I* have never been matched. %uF04A

I'm a 35 year-old virgin myself and I'm an Atheist. You don't have to feel any pressure to %u201Cloose%u201D it so that %u201Clittle kids%u201D won't pick on you. That's childish. The fact is that everyone has their own beliefs, standards and desires in life. Don't try to conform to other people's standards or way of life. That road will just lead you to sorrow and perhaps a feeling of betrayal to yourself. And many people will %u201Claugh%u201D at you for this just because they are compensating for an insecurity within themselves because they think it makes them in some way %u201Cbetter than%u201D you. As long as you believe in yourself and understand why you are in your situation...then you are OK.

The reasons for virginity are not always that cut and dry. Some people aren't just simply aroused to the point of action that easily. Some people will drop their pants at the first opportunity. And there are Great men may have been virgins for their lives. Sir Isaac Newton supposedly never had any sexual relations and was thought to be even secretly gay during his time. Well...what do you know...he was dedicated to working out the foundations of math and science that transformed the world...and without those theories...what we are typing into would not even exist!!!

My story...
As being an Atheist, you can guess that virginity is not an act of %u201Cpurity%u201D or anything like that. It's just that I haven't found anyone to share those feelings with, despite scattered dates and even %u201Cphysically attractive%u201D women wanting to date me. If I was going to engage in a loving relationship, I would want it to have a potential to last. Short term relationships aren't for me because I don't want to waste my time, or even risk STD's with someone who's %u201Cinto%u201D casual sex. As for dating for %u201Cfun%u201D while I know that it will not lead anywhere...well to me that's WRONG to my partner. I won't subject someone to be a %u201Ctemporary%u201D placeholder to make me %u201Clike my friends%u201D. I'm much stronger and more moral than that. Because I was born with characteristics that I believe give me a chance to make a great contribution to humanity...I have chosen to accept only a relationship that will contribute to these life goals. Even being single to life is an acceptable option to me (if I never meet anyone) because to me that's worth the struggle. I know this would be considered a bit extreme to some in this day and age...but I guess that's part of the reason *I* have never been matched. :p

I'm a 35 year-old virgin myself and I'm an Atheist. You don't have to feel any pressure to "loose" it so that "little kids" won't pick on you. That's childish. The fact is that everyone has their own beliefs, standards and desires in life. Don't try to conform to other people's standards or way of life. That road will just lead you to sorrow and perhaps a feeling of betrayal to yourself. And many people will "laugh" at you for this just because they are compensating for an insecurity within themselves because they think it makes them in some way "better than" you. As long as you believe in yourself and understand why you are in your situation...then you are OK.

The reasons for virginity are not always that cut and dry. Some people aren't just simply aroused to the point of action that easily. Some people will drop their pants at the first opportunity. And there are Great men may have been virgins for their lives. Sir Isaac Newton supposedly never had any sexual relations and was thought to be even secretly gay during his time. Well...what do you know...he was dedicated to working out the foundations of math and science that transformed the world...and without those theories...what we are typing into would not even exist!!!

My story...
As being an Atheist, you can guess that virginity is not an act of "purity" or anything like that. It's just that I haven't found anyone to share those feelings with, despite scattered dates and even "physically attractive" women wanting to date me. If I was going to engage in a loving relationship, I would want it to have a potential to last. Short term relationships aren't for me because I don't want to waste my time, or even risk STD's with someone who's into casual sex. As for dating for "fun" while I know that it will not lead anywhere...well to me that's WRONG to my partner. I won't subject someone to be a temporary placeholder to make me "like my friends". I'm much stronger and more moral than that. Because I was born with characteristics that I believe give me a chance to make a great contribution to humanity...I have chosen to accept only a relationship that will contribute to these life goals. Even being single to life is an acceptable option to me (if I never meet anyone) because to me that's worth the struggle. I know this would be considered a bit extreme to some in this day and age...but I guess that's part of the reason *I* have never been matched. :p

Don't feel to bad, I am a 49 year old virgin who has never even been out on a date.

And you thought you were an ass.

I was wondering if someone can give me input. I'm a 21 year old virgin...I guess rather young compared to others... My problem is that there IS a girl that I really like(I know this because I wasn't attracted to her the first half yr I knew her and became attracted later on). I feel that if I actually made a strong attempt to pursue her then something can happen. My problem is that I'm deathly afraid of underperforming, because she lost her virginity when she was 13 and is also 21. She has had so much more experience than me and is friends with all my friends, and I feel like it would absolutely kill me if I do something weird or just don't do anything right and she tells people that I know(I know it shouldn't matter, but it will) And even if she didn't tell people, just having to see her and think that she's upset or not satisfied or whatnot...would also kill me. How do I go about dealing with this...?

man i ni idea that somemany people are still virgins after their teens im 20 and felt kinda alone but i see that it is kinda common

don't be stupid- if you really want sex go to craig's list and post an add- there's many horny women out there who'll do you for free- trust me, its really not hard to find sex. if it all fails, get a pro! :)