In love with a gay man - Is It Normal?

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In love with a gay man

I'm a bisexual young woman who has never had very steady relationships. I'm now dating a great guy who is very sensitive and sweet. However, I'm in lvoe with my gay friend.

He's not just gay, he's a flamer. He's a flamboyant gay guy, but I love him, I can't help it. I love feminine men and nothing turns me on more than a skinny feminine man. I thought I was just in lust with him, but I don't want to have sex with him, I just love him.

I know I can't have him, maybe that's why I love him.

Anyway, is this normal?

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subpar (1829)

2006-05-07 19:00:30

i wish i knew you, you would solve all of my female problems, :(

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Kupok (1887)

2006-05-08 13:45:12

Friends last far longer and are alwase a much, much better bond to have then lovers. But friends can have benifits as well!

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Anonymous

2006-05-08 14:53:30

i am a skinny flaming homo, they call me fish. can i get your number, my email is iwantmanass@gaymail.com my name is dave fishman

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Anonymous

2006-05-08 15:11:04

It's normal, it happens all the time. I would say that if you don't want to have sex with him, then there's no real problem. It's okay to love your friends, just don't do anyhting like get jealous when he goes out with someone or start to think his other friends are trying to take him away from you. Love him, be friends with him, be happy.

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Anonymous

2006-05-10 00:20:07

Nope, definately not normal.

I'm not talking gay or bi, but your falling in love with a guy who you already know won't love you back.

You already said skinny feminine man turns you on, and you two are friends. You already have a stable friendship with him, AND you're dating another guy.

And you've said that you never had very steady relationships. Maybe this is the reason: You want things that you can't get.

I don't know you. It is propesterous of me to put forward such a conclusion base on just such a few lines. Still, maybe you should think about your relationship with your friend, and if you have really confuse friendship + attraction + lust with love after all.

Just my two cents.

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Slam63 (1949)

2006-05-10 09:35:10

Just shows that you fear commitment.

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vodkaveins (1756)

2006-11-15 11:57:10

I don't know what your problem is, but I'll bet it's hard to pronounce

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Someperson (4345)

2006-11-15 15:57:52

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